A carnival of the flesh or a sublimation of the spirit?

Is a one-night stand a carnival of the flesh or an outlet for desire? What is today’s post-90s women’s understanding of one-night stands? Let’s take a look at the opinions of women born in the 1990s on one-night stands.

90 The Root of Debauchery

For example: if the sexual desire of middle-aged men and women over 35 is deliberately controlled by the martial law system; then the sexual desire of men and women under 25 is nothing more than a consumer product that is over-exploited and commodified by capitalism.

"Sex" has become an expensive "sexual commodity" in modern society. In order to obtain the high-end commodity of "sex", many young people pay the price of their bodies "including sexually transmitted diseases and abortions". They use another new set of sexual ideology in capitalist society to try to exude the greatest possible sexual desire of human beings.

The distorted sexual desire of men and women has always existed in the history of sex, but humans can never find the appropriate balance between men and women. It is because of this that the handling of sexual desire between men and women, sex and sexual behavior have always been the most fundamental problems of human beings.

One night of "sex" becomes subconscious

This conversation made me realize that lust is also a kind of ideology, and it deeply controls everyone's sexual behavior. Sometimes sexual ideology can even replace instinct to stimulate lust and express the satisfaction of pleasure on behalf of the body.

The new generation dares to try erotic adventures and replaces the pursuit of liberation theory with practical actions because their repression is originally relatively small. When I was interviewing a young girl about her "affair", I witnessed her boyfriend listening to her description silently and peacefully. At that time, her boyfriend did not feel uncomfortable and seemed very "normal". To be honest, this was the first time I had discovered such a "surreal" new relationship between a man and a woman.

Women take the initiative to tell about one-night stands

A girl who just graduated from university said that she had had experiences with five men, and the most unforgettable one was the physical play between her and the plumber who came to work at her home. She said that the "special service" the plumber gave her that day was unforgettable for her whole life. In addition, two female classmates invited another male high school classmate to travel far away one day. As a result, after drinking in the hotel, their sexual desire was aroused and the male classmate actually asked to play a "threesome game". As a result, he was rejected by one of the female classmates, while the other girl who acquiesced to the "threesome" lost her four-year friendship.

A change of mindset

The "field survey" on the sexual attitudes of the younger generation has clearly shown that the new generation is building a new relationship between the sexes with courage and practice. This situation may not be very common or complete, but it is definitely different from the previous generation. When asked whether they want to get married in the future, most of them said that they want to have children and are not opposed to marriage, but they don’t want to be with their partner every day. In other words, they have lost faith in non-blood-related marital relationships.