10 essential characteristics of a male best friend

Simply put, the definition of a male best friend is: a pure friendship with no barriers between you and a boy. He can interact with you easily and happily like a female best friend; when you encounter problems, he can give you different care and suggestions from a male perspective.

1. Reliable character

Absolutely aboveboard and open. I won't take advantage of you under the guise of being "good to you".

2. Easy to get along with

Either they have a very similar personality to yours and can understand what you are thinking, just like a worm in your stomach; or they are very complementary to you and can help you consider things that are completely in your blind spot.

3. No ambiguous attitude

Even if I have a crush on you, have wanted to pursue you before, or do not rule out the possibility of pursuing you again in the future, I will tell you the truth. At that moment, there was no ambiguity.

4. Love is better than sisterhood

You can have many female best friends, but the more male best friends are not necessarily better. One or two are enough. A male best friend who can stand the test of time must be the one who absolutely trusts you emotionally. He or she may not be a sister to you, but he or she is better than a sister to you.

5. Be a trash can

One of the biggest functions of a male best friend is to act as a woman’s emotional trash can, helping her to become gentle and calm. A man who is like a fuse that can be ignited at any time will certainly only provoke you to fight more.

6. Be open-minded

A petty, whining, and narrow-minded little man will only put a "golden hoop" on your life like Tang Seng, or teach you to be stubborn and stubborn.

7. Keep your mouth shut

Maybe after you confide in a female best friend, you tell her "never tell anyone else about this", and the next day all your female best friends will call you and ask you what's wrong. A male best friend should be like a safe and sheltered tree hole, where you can keep some of your little secrets that you cannot tell others.

8. No possessiveness

A man who is overbearing and only wants to have you for himself, no matter how charming he is, can only become your boyfriend, but never your male best friend. A male best friend can be your safe haven when you are hurt, but when you are about to set sail, he is the one who blesses you from behind.

9. Soft and hard

He must have the same sensibility as you so that he can understand the reasons for your joys, sorrows, anger and happiness; but a male best friend must also be someone who is more rational than you, so that at the critical moment he will not share your anger and sadness, but will provide you with calm and effective advice.

10. Be responsible

For example, if your significant other misunderstands his existence, he will never hide away like a coward or even come over to poach your partner. He will try hard and sincerely use just the right distance to prove that his existence is to better protect you from the wind and rain without overstepping the line.