Six things men are most afraid of their wives doing after marriage

Many people will find that after getting married, married life is always different from when they were in love. The sweetness between lovers will instantly decrease a lot. Women will complain that men don’t know how to cherish what they have, and men will secretly blame why women change so quickly. Many things slowly ferment in relationships due to lack of communication, causing many new problems. Today, the editor will reveal to you from the perspective of men's psychology what men are afraid of their wives doing after marriage. Women should be more careful!

I am most afraid of my wife asking about my ex-girlfriend.

Some women are born with a love for "getting to the bottom of things", which is an advantage if it is used in studying, but unfortunately it is used in the wrong place. You don't need to know too much about the things you use; denying them will only add to your troubles. Your husband’s past relationships happened before he met you, so it has nothing to do with you. Why do you need to know too much about them? Of course, it’s okay if your husband is willing to share with you, but the thing to be afraid of is “forced confession.” Although she said that she was just asking casually, if the man really told the truth, he would probably get into a lot of trouble. This kind of character, wanting to know all the details but unable to be magnanimous and let go, is really degrading oneself.

I am most afraid of my wife's endless nagging.

Although not all women, nagging is indeed a common problem for many women. This may be related to women's physiology and psychology, but it is understandable overall. But everything has to have a limit. Nagging is sometimes a sign of care and love, but if it goes too far it will inevitably become annoying and dislikeable. So the woman was sad, thinking that her kindness was being taken for granted. It can be said that some women do not like to return love, do not like to talk but prefer to remain silent, and are unwilling to tell their wives when they have something to say. Most of the time, it is the result of the woman causing trouble and the man is avoiding it.

I am most afraid of my wife saying bad things about my mother.

Women have fewer conflicts with their father-in-law and more conflicts with their mother-in-law. This may be due to the repulsion between the same sex and the same psychological and physiological characteristics among women. Therefore, some wives like to bring up their mother-in-law, for example, looking down on her openly or secretly. Obviously, this is what a stupid woman does, because she forgets that her mother-in-law is her husband's mother. No matter how many faults she says about her mother-in-law, it is basically equivalent to saying bad things about her husband. For a man, how can he feel when his beloved wife speaks ill of his beloved mother?

I am most afraid that my wife despises my ability to be intimate

Men may have gaps in their abilities in all aspects, and this is certainly no exception when it comes to intimacy. Moreover, men are not always as strong as they used to be in terms of intimacy, and there may be times when they do not perform as well as they wish. Some women may be born with a coquettish nature. If their husbands fail to meet their demands, they will foolishly despise them and say things like "you're useless". I really can't imagine that there are such stupid women! They love their own husbands, but instead of showing understanding or comfort, they attack them. Men at this time are usually the most inferior and can only endure it silently, thus starting a vicious cycle. The man was ruined by his wife.

I am most afraid of my wife being talkative and causing trouble.

Some women are born gossips. They always love to talk about other people's private matters. When they get together, they do not do their work but instead ask about or discuss other people's gossips, such as how the couple is not getting along, how someone is getting divorced, how someone's daughter can't get married, how someone's husband is cheating on them. They are afraid that the world will not be in chaos. They cause countless troubles and bring shame to men because of this. What men fear most is marrying a gossipy woman, which will bring shame to their entire lives.

I am most afraid of my wife crying and hanging

First cry, then make a fuss, then hang yourself; this is the traditional way women use to deal with men. It seems that more and more women are using this method now, but it has not disappeared. In marriage, family, life and work, it is inevitable to encounter various unpleasant things. When encountering things, the first thing to do is to "face" them, then "deal with them". If you really cannot deal with them, then "let them go". Men will definitely be annoyed if they cry and make a scene at every turn, or even threaten to hang themselves. Even if they give in temporarily, such stupid and despicable means will not really work. In the end, men will stay away from them. Can you not afford to provoke them, but can you afford to avoid them?