Let orgasm no longer be suppressed

From the perspective of physiological function, and excluding any pathological changes and any special social circumstances (such as rape, etc.), women's sexual ability is almost unlimited. She has no penis and does not have to go through the effort of producing and maintaining an erection like men do. Especially women do not have a physiological "refractory period" and do not experience weakness after sexual intercourse. Therefore, she can objectively have high-frequency sexual intercourse at any time.

Similarly, the intensity of women's sexual activity is limited only by their physical strength, but they do not have to worry about penis weakness like men do.

In addition, women have more and wider sexual sensitive areas on their body surfaces than men, so they can objectively change the specific ways of sexual behavior more than men.

Finally, women can reach an unlimited number of orgasms in succession, which is something men cannot match.

Confucianism and Taoism discovered this long ago.

However, in order to maintain the male-centered society at that time, they were all deeply afraid of this. Confucianism advocates that "a woman's virtue lies in being sexless" to severely suppress women's sexual ability, while Taoism advocates that men should "cherish their essence and protect their bodies" to counteract women's unlimited sexual ability.

These two sexual cultural traditions have been deeply rooted in the hearts of Chinese women, and female sexuality has been seriously distorted and alienated. This makes them feel double sexual repression in their personal sex life.

Before starting sexual life, women often can't help but feel that sex is a man's patent and women should not actively seek it.

Even after a more satisfying sex life breaks through this psychological resistance, women still cannot learn how to more fully enjoy their unlimited sexual potential.

If an unmarried woman dares to say that she also has sexual arousal, sexual dreams or sexual responses, other men will definitely think that this woman has an opportunity, while other women will definitely think that she is a "slut". As a result, a woman's wedding night has been turned into a "test", which often brings about all kinds of unnecessary physical and mental troubles, and even pain.

After marriage, women’s sexuality is still considered to be solely for serving their husbands, and it seems that as long as they never refuse their husbands’ sexual demands, they have good sexual ability. If a wife dares to say that she needs more orgasms, she will probably be considered "greedy" at the very least. If the wife makes some special requests for what she needs, the husband will most likely think that she is "unfaithful" and even ask, "Who did you learn this from?"

International feminism believes that the sexuality of men and women is homogeneous and isomorphic

It is just that because society has always been male-centered for thousands of years, it has created a cultural system that severely suppresses women's sexual ability and sexual expression. Women themselves are gradually cultivated and trained to become "sexless people", and they are completely unaware of it and even think that women are born this way.

Feminism believes that women's liberation and gender equality must include sex.

It is necessary to restore the original appearance of female sexual physiology so that women, like men, can fully enjoy their innate sexual abilities and sexual pleasure spontaneously, autonomously, consciously and self-regulatingly.

If women still dare not acknowledge and use their unlimited sexual abilities, they will not be able to obtain the equal status and autonomy (not power!) they deserve in their sexual lives, nor will they be able to obtain equality in other aspects of social life.

In the past, we have introduced too little about the sexual theories of the international women's movement.

Therefore, in the eyes of some educated Chinese women, mentioning the physiological drive of sex seems to be low and vulgar, denying the nobility of love, and even degrading women. In fact, it is in those cultures that fully respect women's sexual ability and sexual rights that the flag of love flies higher than ours. On the occasion of the Fourth World Conference on Women, we should be more open and honest in preaching and popularizing in-depth sexual knowledge in this area so as to benefit every sister in China.