Can you forgive your wife for her "disguise"?

Orgasm is the best state of sexual life for men and women, and it is also the goal that people pursue. However, if you regard orgasm as the only purpose of sexual life, you will feel dissatisfied with your originally satisfactory sex life. Sometimes couples even pretend to have an orgasm in order to make each other feel happy. There are different opinions on whether this is right or not.

From the analysis of the process of sexual life, it can be found that in the sexual life of most couples, especially in the newlywed stage, the proportion of men reaching orgasm is much higher than that of women. According to previous statistics, most women have orgasm after the age of 30. Of course, this situation has changed now because modern women have accepted healthy sexual knowledge and no longer think that sex is a dirty, shameful and obscene thing. They are as active and proactive as men in sex and can easily get pleasure from sex. There is already data showing that women are achieving orgasm significantly earlier, and the theory that women's sexual desire is strongest after the age of 30 is somewhat outdated. However, the proportion of women who achieve orgasm within the first few years of sexual life is still significantly lower than that of men.

Sexual pleasure and orgasm are two different concepts. Women without orgasm can still have obvious sexual pleasure. Therefore, after marriage, most women still enjoy sex life. They can experience intimacy, friendship, care and communication between the two sexes in sex life. As sexual experience becomes richer and the sexual intercourse becomes more harmonious, sexual pleasure becomes more and more intense, eventually leading to an unprecedented, irresistible, and soul-stirring orgasm. In fact, this is a good thing, because a gradually happy sex life can make the marriage more stable, which is beneficial rather than harmful.

With the popularization of sexual knowledge, people know what orgasm is and its unique manifestations. Since orgasm is the best state or highest level of sexual life, it is naturally the goal that people pursue. As a result, those who are unable to reach orgasm, of course most of them are women, think that there is something wrong with their sex life. They suffer from it and even blame their husbands, especially when their husbands have premature ejaculation.

Some couples believe that not having an orgasm is a sign of low sexual ability and are afraid that their partner will look down on them or make them sad, so they pretend to have reached an orgasm. If husbands fake orgasms, their wives will see through the charade when they do not feel ejaculation. Maybe the needle is troubled by this. If a wife is faking an orgasm, she can actively contract her pubococcygeus muscles and even imitate the moans and pleasant expressions during an orgasm. According to statistics from a foreign magazine, 28% of men and 60% of women have faked orgasm. The key is to see what the purpose of faking an orgasm is. If you are afraid of making the other person sad, this kind of disguise is understandable.

However, faking an orgasm may also cause problems. If a wife fakes an orgasm and the husband thinks that his wife has reached orgasm, he will not further improve his sexual intercourse methods, but will instead affect his future sex life. The wife should approve of her husband's correct or pleasant actions and ask him to continue. At this time, the fake orgasm can give the husband more confidence and may really make his wife reach orgasm. Studies have shown that women who often fake orgasms have strong self-esteem, are beautiful in appearance, and consider themselves sexually attractive. Another important significance of women faking orgasm is that some women have a strong self-suggestion effect. During the process of faking orgasm, they can enhance the feeling of the tight vagina wrapping around the penis. Therefore, the fake orgasm can often induce a normal orgasm. This point is strongly agreed by sex psychologists. Therefore, faking an orgasm is well-intentioned and beneficial to some extent.