What men fear most is losing their "career"

Most women can accept men's sexual masturbation, but men often find it difficult to accept women's sexual masturbation. Men are far more likely than women to admit to masturbating to their partners and to masturbate in front of their partners.

The reasons for this are: first, the indoctrination of gender roles has formed the idea that men have strong sexual desires and women have weak sexual desires, and it is easier to understand that men masturbate than women; second, mainstream culture views sex as something shameful, and masturbation is a marginal sexual behavior that is contrary to the image of a "lady"; third, women's masturbation undermines men's sexual confidence, making them blame themselves for not being able to satisfy women. Perhaps more importantly, we still live in an atmosphere where patriarchal culture has a profound influence. The deep psychological reason for resisting masturbation is the desire to own one's sexual partner's sexual behavior. When women masturbate, selfish men will feel that their sexual rights are violated.

The prejudice in mainstream society is that masturbation is merely a supplement to sexual intercourse. First of all, I would like to affirm here that masturbation has value as an independent sexual behavior. At the same time, it should be pointed out that women's masturbation is also beneficial to men.

Sexual masturbation is an important step for women to understand their own bodies, find and develop their own erogenous zones, capture their own keen sexual feelings, and make the body truly their own. A woman who has developed through masturbation can tell a man where she needs more stimulation and what kind of stimulation is best for her. If men are left to figure these things out on their own, how many men have the patience to do so? Women can help men save time on exploration, spend less energy and do more practical things, making both parties more harmonious physically and mentally. The liberated woman is destined to be the true teacher of the liberated man. Women's orgasm comes later than men's. They have no sexual refractory period and can achieve orgasm continuously. When a man ejaculates, the woman's emotions may just be in place. When a man is in the shadow of sexual refractory period and is powerless, a woman can use her own strength to experience a continuous, endless and beautiful orgasm. If there is no masturbation, won't men be blamed too much by women who fail to satisfy them?

For women who are "sexually unemployed" (unmarried, widowed, husband away on business or sick, etc.) and have no sexual partner, masturbation is almost the only way for them to obtain physical and mental satisfaction.

Men all want to see their sexual partners reach orgasm faster, but men who lack romantic feelings and are unwilling to sacrifice themselves for the benefit of women are still keen on the penis-vagina sexual intercourse model, which obviously cannot best stimulate the woman's sexual sensitivity center - the clitoris. Only when masturbation is involved in sexual intercourse can the clitoris be better stimulated, women can more easily reach orgasm, and the ideal of mutual pleasure between the two sexes can be realized more quickly.

In the biological sense, women are animals that are far more sexy and have stronger sexual abilities than men. However, in the sociological sense, women are portrayed as freaks whose sexual desire is far less than that of men. With the rise of a new generation of women, they will inevitably succeed in betraying the enslavement and suppression of their natural attributes by traditional culture, and become women who are more obedient to the call of their own lives. If this is true, how many men can always make women completely satisfied sexually? The opportunities in life, at least in sexual behavior, should be that women are stronger than men. Fortunately, masturbation can help women, and while helping women it also helps men out.

Men should understand as soon as possible that if they abandon the myth of patriarchy and look at women's masturbation with equal eyes, they will find that they not only have not lost anything, but have gained a lot.