This behavior of a woman in bed will definitely drive her husband crazy

Men become even crazier when women are shy in bed. When all kinds of cool and hot girls are dancing in the "open" intimate bed, the indicator of a woman's charm and sexiness is briefly replaced by an unprecedented sense of freshness where she becomes more and more proactive and more and more at ease. However, what ultimately attracts people is the natural oxygen. The classical complex of "holding the pipa and half covering the face" will carry a long-lasting fragrance and will be regarded by men as an eternal classic in their hearts.

In the last century when people advocated love without sex, most Chinese men liked open-minded women because they were rare and valuable. In this century that advocates passionless sex, Chinese men's appetites have begun to change, and they miss women with reserved and traditional manners.

In fact, it is obviously unrealistic for an urban girl to become a truly traditional woman today, but she should know the appropriate skills and techniques.

You might as well listen to men’s personal experiences of “shyness” and “openness”.

I'm like a 'crazy' woman's venting tool

Zhang Yang, 29, civil servant

Because of my personality, I have always believed that extroverted and open-minded women have a different kind of appeal. The woman's boldness and initiative made me feel fresh and excited, but soon I felt scared. My girlfriend was like an aggressive leopard, and I was like a clumsy little virgin in comparison.

Her endless teasing made me unable to control myself. I was physically exhausted and mentally frustrated. As a man, I feel very disappointed that I don’t have the opportunity to arrange the whole plot in bed! Finally, one day, I couldn't help but say to her, "You have honed these skills by meeting so many people, right?" I know it's hurtful to say this, but I have decided to put an end to her, and I really can't help but say it. I think, maybe Chinese men still like the artistic conception of "holding the pipa with half the face covered" in their bones.

Appropriate shyness is the ultimate in sexiness

Ye Hui, 35 years old, engineer

When I was studying in the United States, I had a British girlfriend named Frain. Her passionate and open personality always made me feel very comfortable in bed. We were very compatible, and I thought this was the highest level of sexual enjoyment between men and women. However, when I came into contact with my Chinese girlfriend Sisi, I found the classical oriental charm more fascinating. That shy look, the implicit body language, the reserved response, the half-hearted acceptance, and the evasive eyes all drive me crazy and really whet my appetite! She never takes the initiative, but I feel like she's always teasing me in the most ingenious ways.

Gliding through the woods like a bird, dodging like an elf, and disappearing like a fish, all of these stimulated all my senses. When I felt that I had used all my strength to catch her, that kind of "triumph" gave a man the greatest pleasure of body and mind.

Women are too open to men

Playing hard to get is a powerful tactic in ancient Chinese military tactics. It is also very interesting when used in sexual intercourse between men and women. Chinese culture values ​​subtlety as beauty. A woman who is too open will cause a man to have double psychological pressure:

1. Producing bad associations

Although with the changes of the times, the virgin complex is not so deep-rooted in many men, but even if a man does not expect to be her first, at least he does not want to be her Nth! A woman who is too open and shameless can easily make men think that she has seen countless men.

2. Threaten men’s strength and undermine their self-confidence

The most common mistake made by open women is to "take the initiative" and appear aggressive because of their unscrupulousness. This makes Chinese men, who have always felt that they should be dominant in this matter, feel very uncomfortable. They will lose their confidence and feel that they are being despised like a weakling.

Postscript: Due to cultural and racial differences, Chinese men like reserved women. They may occasionally interact with "open" women as a "meal" to satisfy their curiosity, but they rarely make up their minds to join hands with them and get married. When a woman expresses her sexiness in a "shy" way, it will trigger countless associations. Just like a cheongsam, the whole body is wrapped tightly, with only a pair of beautiful legs faintly visible, which is extremely charming.