What kind of women are men just playing with?

There are two types of women: one is the one who can be married home as a wife; the other is the one who is just for fun but no real feelings can be formed. Some women have been in love for two or three years, but the relationship still cannot be successful, and the men have no intention of marrying them. In the final analysis, are men too bad? Or are women too unattractive? Psychology is closely related to life. If you want to know why men don't like you, check whether you are one of the following 9 types of women:

The first type is women who are overly ostentatious and often flirt with others.

To be honest, all men actually like such women, but this is only from a simple masculine perspective. Even if a man goes to bed with this kind of woman, he will not treat her as his wife. At most, he will treat her as a mistress. Because the man knows that the woman he marries as his wife will not be the kind of woman who flirts with other men and easily goes to bed with them.

The second type is women who often undermine men’s self-confidence and always envy and hate other people.

Perhaps many women do not understand that one of the ways to capture a man's heart is to learn to admire him, which is to expand or cultivate a man's self-confidence. As important pillars of society, men are under pressure from all directions. If they do not have self-confidence, it will be difficult for them to gain a foothold and develop, and it will be difficult for them to achieve results. If you were a man, and you were asked to marry a woman who would undermine your self-confidence every day, would you be willing?

The third type is women who lose their temper easily and are unreasonable when angry.

Women can be coquettish and can be angry, but both must be done in moderation, or in other words, must be reasonable. A woman who knows how to act coquettishly and get angry appropriately is more likely to please a man. However, I think few men would like a woman who loses her temper easily or is even unreasonable, let alone marry her. Marrying a woman like this is tantamount to suicide, because she will make your life shorter and shorter.

The fourth type is women who are too suspicious and like to stalk or spy on men’s privacy.

This kind of woman has two fatal weaknesses: one is her lack of self-confidence, and the other is her lack of trust in men. If these two fatal weaknesses become serious, they will lead to delusions and even mental disorder. If you marry a woman like this, your home will be filled with gloom or conspiracy, and there may be no peace in the family and no one in the family may be at peace. Because she may seize on some suspicious point of yours at any time and keep nagging you.

The fifth type is women who are too unscrupulous and don’t give men face in public.

Trees need bark, people need dignity, especially men. Men's awareness of face in public is a hundred times stronger than women's. For example, women can act like little birds in public, but men cannot. Therefore, women who know how to give men enough face in public are often more popular with men. Even if you torture a man in private after you go back, he won't mind too much. However, if you ostentatiously embarrass a man in public, he will never love you unless he is a lunatic.

The sixth type is a woman who is too bland and has little interest in anything.

There will definitely be men who marry this kind of woman, but smart men won't marry her. Because smart men know that if they marry such a woman home, they will not face joy and passion every day, but depression, gloom, rigidity and boredom. Therefore, if a woman wants to marry a smart man, she must develop her interests and hobbies.

The seventh type is women who have a strong desire for control and put too much pressure on men.

A man who lives in the hands of such a woman must feel like his neck is being pinched every day, making it hard for him to breathe. Because he is controlled too tightly by the woman, he has no space and cannot breathe the air of freedom. Moreover, this kind of control will prevent a man from fully exerting his abilities in anything he does, because he will always feel a sense of oppression from this woman. So, would you marry this kind of woman?

Men are very playful, but they clearly know that play is play, and some women are just suitable for play!

Three must-learn tips on love psychology to easily control him

It is not easy to control a man and play with him in the palm of your hand, but if you take some measures and exercise your skills, it is easy! Three women must learn the tricks to control him easily!

X = Appearance

X is for appearance. But a good man should be between handsome and ugly. For men, appearance should not be like F4, who look like flowers and have female fans following them screaming all day long; nor should they look ugly. Being handsome is pleasing to the eyes and makes one feel happy, and when one takes a man out on the street, one will attract envious glances. However, women are narrow-minded. After their vanity is satisfied, they will become suspicious and always think that there must be many people who are competing for such a good-looking man. After they become "yellow-faced women", they will have even more random thoughts in their minds all day long, and they will not be able to live like this.

So, a good man should be like this: neither a flower prince nor a frog prince.

Y = Wealth

Y stands for wealth. A good man should be between rich and not rich. I remember a text message that said: "Looking for a wife: I am poor, ugly, 1.49 meters tall, with primary school education and rural household registration, three broken houses and a basket of corn, no wife, and have to take medicine all year round. Today I am sending this text message to recruit a girlfriend. We will walk hand in hand on the revolutionary road together. Are you willing?" Are you willing to join hands with such a man? As the saying goes: "Poverty brings sorrow to couples", beautiful love cannot withstand the ravages of poverty, and if it goes wrong, love will also "die". Then marry a rich man? No possibility either. You obviously married him for love, but when others talk about it, it will definitely become "this woman must have been attracted by his money and tried every means to seduce him to become his mistress." No matter what, you have to be able to endure this humiliation. There is another saying, "Once you enter a rich man's palace, it's like entering a deep sea." Generally speaking, a very wealthy man often has a very powerful family. Marrying him is equivalent to marrying a huge family. The third concubines and seventh aunts will annoy you to death. Moreover, "men become bad when they have money." They are impossible to watch over, control, guard against, or deal with.

Therefore, a good man should be like this: he should have enough food and clothing, but not be rich.

Z = Talent

Z stands for talent. A good man should be between talented and untalented. The ancients said: "A talented man and a beautiful woman." Of course a man must be talented, otherwise there wouldn't be so many single fools in the world. If there is nothing wrong with the woman's brain, she basically will not take the initiative to look for a man with a brain problem to be her husband. Women are unconsciously attracted to talented men. So, is it really better to have someone who is extremely talented and skilled? If I ask you to marry Zhuge Liang, would you be willing? Wait a moment and think about it before answering. Zhuge Liang had talent and strategies. Do you have any? One day, he suddenly got in the mood and wanted to talk to you about the "Empty City Plan". Could you say a few words to him? If one day, he wanted to do something behind your back, said a few words casually, or played some tricks, could you tell the truth from the false? Moreover, such men are often arrogant and insolent in the real world. They always think that they are the best of the best and that "the whole world is turbid and I am the only one who is clear". They are easily excluded and become lonely in the workplace. If they encounter a petty-minded boss, there is no talk of development and future. At home, he is even more self-centered and doesn't take you seriously. Then you are miserable. Just be a slave and follower.