9 secret weapons women must master to conquer men

It is easy to make a man fall in love with a woman. However, such love usually cannot last long. A long-lasting relationship requires a certain level of understanding between both parties, rather than just love at first sight. Maybe, what he pursues is just your appearance, property or body, not pure feelings.

To win a man over is not to make him fall at your feet obediently, but to capture his heart and make him willing, not just out of politeness. However, to enter a man's heart and become his soul mate requires very advanced skills.

Many men have been carefully guarding their "mental barriers". In the space that he enjoys alone and that you seem unable to share with him at all, they only use vague and ambiguous words, making you ambiguous and unable to distinguish his true thoughts.

1. Accept him more and affirm him more

Many people think that women are thin-skinned and afraid of being rejected. In fact, men are even thinner-skinned than women and are more afraid of being rejected. Their self-esteem is as fragile as eggshells. The more recognition you give them, the easier it will be for them to open up and talk about their feelings.

When people tell the other person their deepest secrets, they often make sure that the other person can accept it first, because this secret is the treasure in his heart. Don't think that a man is careless and doesn't care about anything. He will always observe you carefully before speaking.

If you love him, accept him more and give him more affirmation. Only in this way will he tell you all his thoughts and avoid any psychological barriers between you and you will be able to enter his inner world more easily.

People always have various habits. For example, they are used to drinking a certain brand of beverage, they are used to drinking soup before eating, they are used to asking you to adjust your tie before going out, they are used to holding your hand when going out... Once you ask people to suddenly change these habits, you will find that you will feel uncomfortable and very bad.

If you want to win a man easily, you need to become a part of his habits and become indispensable to him. Therefore, you have to slowly infiltrate his life, making him feel comfortable and unconscious, without any oppression or restraint, just like air in water.

Once one day he finds that you are no longer by his side, he will be unable to survive, just like a fish without air. In this way, he will be trapped by you!

It is not easy to be a man’s soul mate. You need to know him well enough to discover what is in his mind through his every frown, smile and gesture. Society has given men more responsibilities. They must support their wives and children, which requires them to have a strong heart. However, not all men's hearts are indestructible. They all have a weak and soft spot in their hearts.

Whenever they encounter great work pressure or setbacks in life, they want to lie in your gentle arms and tell you their complaints. Only you can be the one he confides in and become his spiritual dependence. He will share his happiness with others, but the real pain in his heart will only be left to you.

Become his soul mate, then his life will be unimaginable without you.

The seven-year itch, the three-year itch, today's marriage is facing the biggest attack in history. The number one killer of extramarital affairs is external temptation. Flies don't bite seamless eggs. If your love or marriage is strong enough, who can easily invade it?

But in real life, it is often the case that just when a relationship is halfway through, it already starts to feel like an old married couple, and the romance and passion that they had when they were in love are no longer there. It’s not that men don’t love life, but they are afraid of a mediocre life and afraid that the cruel time will kill the once beautiful princess in their hearts.

If you want to keep your relationship or marriage fresh, then create more romantic surprises. Don’t think that creating surprises is a man’s patent. You can also let romance and passion happen everywhere for your beloved, so that in his eyes, you will always be the heartbeat when you first met.

Happiness does not lie in finding a perfect person, but in striving to build a perfect relationship with a perfect person. If you care about him too much and try to please him too much, you will spoil him, but if you are too selfish and too arrogant, he will be afraid of you.

Love needs a moderate amount of air and oxygen. You will always be the one who is neither too far nor too close, and never leaves him. If he calls, you will go as promised; if he gives you flowers, you should praise him for being handsome; if he wants to be alone, you will turn around and walk away - but you will call him in the evening to show your concern.

Nowadays, many men are afraid of marriage. It’s not that they don’t love the woman or don’t want to marry her, but the woman’s constant pressure makes them scared.

Many men feel that women want or need beautiful lies. Many men are afraid to tell their partners what is going on in their lives or how they really feel because it may disappoint them.

In fact, many women enjoy using their emotions to control their men—and, therefore, their relationship. Women often ask men to make specific reactions. For example, as soon as she sheds tears, the man should immediately offer his shoulder and whisper softly. Women get frustrated when they can't get it. In fact, this is a hint that men should not tell the truth.

Willingness to hear the truth is the beginning of a truly mature relationship between the sexes, which will make a man feel that he has a reliable partner who can share the ups and downs with him. Don't deceive yourself and don't lose heart. Maybe you can't accept all the facts now, but as long as you are willing, you can definitely exercise your tolerance.

Love seems so accidental, but at the very first moment, what made you talk about it passionately: a concert, a CD, a comic book, a city you visited together? It will always be those common interests and similar hearts that infect each other, so find it out and carry it forward.

If you have been travel buddies, then you will be his best companion on every trip; if his favorite object is a camera, then why not become the model in his lens forever.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big killer of marriage. Many happily married couples have ended up breaking up their marriages because of the interference of their mother-in-law. Mother’s words are the “weakness” of all obedient boys in the world. Men believe that their mothers are unique, but they can find another girlfriend or wife if they lose her.

Therefore, if you want to win a man, you must become the favorite of your mother-in-law, so that your marriage or relationship will not be disrupted by your mother-in-law.

Find a reason to meet his mother and please her. If the old lady praises you in front of him again and again, he will probably never be able to kick you out of his life.

If you are trying to live together or are already living together, then incorporate your traces into his space little by little. Unconsciously, his bookshelf has been filled with many of your books and CDs that you both like. And one morning when he wakes up, he will find that his toothbrush cup has become one of a pair of cute Winnie the Pooh cups... How can he tell the difference between the two worlds that overlap so closely?