9 stupid things women do when they are immature

Men come from Mars, where the average temperature is minus 23 degrees Celsius, while women come from Venus, where the surface temperature is as high as 450 degrees Celsius. Men and women have always had different perceptions of temperature.

1. Behaving frivolously

When you come across a social party with a handsome man, you are the first one to walk up to him from the crowd of ladies to exchange business cards to show how charming you are. However, you may not pay attention to the excessive swaying of your waist when you walk, or the overly sweet voice when you talk to sound sexy. Your jealous female colleagues will quickly spread the matter to the company's leaders in the form of rumors, causing your trustworthiness index to drop rapidly.

You already know the importance of standing out and attracting attention. After all, no one pays attention to Cinderella. Maintaining the rate of turning heads and being in the spotlight will help enhance your self-confidence. However, it’s better to leave belly-baring clothes to your cousin. It’s better to add a shawl when you wear a tank top when going out. A mature woman is at least graceful in appearance.

By the way, please don’t forward the text messages sent to you by your sisters to the opposite sex. These words of encouragement may not apply to everyone. Remember, deep charm comes from your inner temperament, not a momentary display of talent.

2. Vanity

You are not twenty years old yet, so there is no need to make a fuss about your birthday. If your boyfriend doesn't send you flowers, you shouldn't secretly call the flower shop and ask them to send flowers to the company and require three or more female colleagues to be present. As a couple living a family life, there is no need to set high standards and strict requirements for your male partner on Valentine's Day.

The latest mobile phones are not designed specifically for you. They are just for show, but some of their features are not actually useful to you. Especially those that look thin but are very expensive. You can just admire them through the window. After all, his money is for supporting his family.

It is understandable that women all like a glamorous appearance, but those actresses who endorse high-end cosmetics brands use free gifts and can even make money from using them. You are not on the same starting line as them.

So, don't force yourself. Do things within your means and be more practical when buying things. This will make you more feminine at home. Otherwise, in the eyes of men, you will never be a woman who can take care of her husband and children and manage the household well, which is also one of the reasons why you can't get married yet.

3. Impulsive spending

I believe that when you pass by a shop window full of beautiful clothes, you will subconsciously touch your bank card. If you feel like an angel is flying in your heart every time you spend, then you'd better remember that "impulse is the devil" before spending.

Did you buy that pair of sunglasses and throw them into a drawer and never pay attention to them again? Did you buy that ridiculously expensive imported doll in the new boutique on the street and never open the box after you got home for ten yuan?

That's right, you have the same hobby as all women in the world, you are obsessed with spending money to buy some things that you have no use for at all. The moment you own it, you will feel the happiness of a materialist. As for terms such as practicality, usage value, and cost-effectiveness, you rarely care about them.

If you are only responsible for being a little impulsive when spending and spending a little when you are impulsive, then it is no wonder that in the eyes of others, you are always a girl who loves to spend money recklessly.

4. Romantic Fantasy

You are the kind of person who always says that you are single and have no lover, but you are never short of love around you. When you are too depressed, you will look for fast food love in the vast Internet or dim bars. When you were a girl, you were a perfectionist. You thought you were a fairy from heaven and you had to find a prince. He didn’t have to be Arab, but at least he had to be Afghan.

For the male protagonist in the love story that is about to unfold, he insists on a tall, handsome and perfect image standard. Later you met men A, B, C, and D, but you were not satisfied with any of them, so you began to feel that life was far away and love was somewhere else. Later, you met men ABCD through a friend’s introduction. You thought you had seen countless men and were mature enough, so you sincerely sighed, “I’ve seen through men” and “none of them are good” and so on.

In fact, you haven't figured out that you are a romantic dreamer. Everyone can understand those beautiful dreams of love you had when you were young and ignorant, but after being tempered by the reality for so long, you are still unwilling to live a down-to-earth life. On the one hand, you go on dates constantly but are always unwilling to truly commit yourself, and on the other hand, you are eagerly looking forward to extremely romantic things happening to you.

If you live with such an emotional attitude, it is obvious that you will gain nothing except physical maturity.

5. Losing your temper

Some people are always slow to react, but you are the opposite, you react instantly. Because of your boyfriend's excessive comment on your clothes, you will immediately let go of his arms in the street, leaving him trying to find a hole in the ground in public. On your emotional barometer, it is mostly sunny to cloudy with short-term gusts and occasional showers.

If you say that occasional coquettishness can add a bit to your cuteness, then please believe that few men can tolerate your habitual temper. There are at least ten reasons to explain to you, an emotional and tearful person, why you shouldn't lose your temper: it hurts your liver and stomach, it accelerates aging and shortens your life, it affects your work, it reduces your affinity, it makes you lose your femininity, it damages your image... Life is full of joys and sorrows, and losing your temper is a normal phenomenon, but losing your temper randomly is obviously a sign of immaturity.

6. Excessive tension and relaxation

Let's talk about your career. Do you often forget things, often have wild ideas, and work hard for three days and rest for two days? Do you neglect the important and pursue trivial matters in your business? If you want to know whether your career has a bright future, whether you can be a leader or only a leader's wife, you don't need to test how much talent you have. Just check your handbag to see if it is full of miscellaneous items or in order. Or reflect on your blog to see if it is full of daydreams and freehand poems, or a methodical work plan.

A person who has a plan, can implement the plan, and the implementation is effective and the results are obvious will be welcomed by any boss. If the situation is the opposite, then don't use "the plan is not as fast as the change" as an excuse. You do change fast enough, but that's because you don't have any plan at all. If it weren't for your stable gender, you would have little chance of becoming a leader's wife.

7. Narrow-mindedness

The new female colleague is more popular with the leader than you, is younger and prettier than you, and wears more fashionable clothes than you, which really makes you feel very unhappy! The trivial matters between colleagues and the unintentional teasing of the speaker will immediately cause you inexplicable jealousy. You start to act. Although you have no malice, you can't help but say bad things about her behind her back, laugh at her embarrassing things, and satirize her clothes...

It is true that women are jealous animals. In some aspects, they lack an open mind and often go to extremes. However, you need to know that mature people know how to be tolerant and seek common ground while reserving differences. Think about your boyfriend's tolerance and understanding of you over the years! If you were as broad-minded as him, the atmosphere in your office would definitely be much more harmonious, and you would be more popular.

8. Self-willed

Ever since you were a little girl, you learned to ask for ice cream and new clothes without being taught. Even when you grew up, you are still the same. If your boyfriend doesn't accompany you to satisfy your shopping urge on the weekend, and you don't care whether he has to work overtime or attend official social events, in one word: making trouble! How dare you go against my will, disobey my orders, and disobey my words... Okay, you'd better stop it.

A woman who is rude and unreasonable and self-righteous, a woman who does not think about others, or even a woman who is domineering and extremely selfish, cannot be considered a lovely woman in everyone's mind. It's okay to be a little willful or lose your temper, as long as you stop it in time. Men are annoyed by women who are overly willful and don't consider the other person in any situation. The meaning of maturity includes knowing how to respect others, knowing how to respect others and being grateful.

9. Old age and ignorance

There are many women like you, who are old and in critical condition, but their interests and hobbies are still limited to shopping and playing. They don't understand social life and can't take care of their career development.

People who have no sense of crisis and just live from day to day often suffer devastating blows when they encounter twists and turns in life. The ignorant are helpless, sad and pitiful. If the ignorance of a fifteen or sixteen-year-old girl can be forgiven, then if you, who are twice the age of that girl, are still as simple, naive and innocent as you were more than ten years ago, and your emotional intelligence and IQ have not improved significantly, then you are wrong.

The fact that you know all the gossip about celebrities doesn't prove that you are knowledgeable, the fact that you watch a lot of TV dramas doesn't prove that you have a deep understanding of life, the fact that you type fast doesn't prove that you are good at computers, and the fact that you can make jokes doesn't prove that you are a master in business negotiations... Knowledge also has depth, and so does self-cultivation. It depends on the accumulation of every little bit of your daily life and on your requirements and expectations of yourself.

If all you have compared to young people is a few years of attendance records, then sooner or later you will lose your rightful status as an elder.