Uncover the 6 dissatisfactions of women in bed

Strictly set a sex schedule. If you agree to have sex once a week, you will never do it more than 4 times a month. If you agree to have sex every Saturday night, you will never change it to Monday morning. Moreover, the process was very official. His face makes you feel that he is carrying out a mission that he is very reluctant to do but has to complete.

Beauty's killer move: give someone a taste of their own medicine

This type of thing is enough to make a woman depressed to the point of internal injuries. There is really no need to endure it. If he is rigid, you should be more rigid than him.

If he is serious, you should be more serious than him; if he is businesslike, you should be more businesslike than him... Although most men do not think there is anything wrong with doing this, and may even think that this is their own style of doing things, doing so is beneficial to the health of both husband and wife.

But when others treat him like this, he gets very angry. When one day he can't help but be frank with you, you can take the opportunity to say, "I'm giving him a taste of his own medicine." I believe he will feel it personally and make corrections. This is a strong medicine, so be careful when using it.

2. Staying the same

Over the years, the lovemaking routine has not changed from when we were first married. I know what he is going to do with my eyes closed, and it is always the same three axes. He has watched a lot of pornographic films and has never been too disgusted by pornographic magazines. Why can't he come up with something new when it comes to himself?

Beauty's killer weapon: sweet talk + seduction

This type of person actually separates sexual fantasies from real sex life. In his opinion, it is absolutely crazy to bring the plot in "Lust, Caution" back to reality.

His inflexibility may be a habit, or he may be afraid of your disgust. So, find a quiet night with a full moon, with a beautiful lingerie lady with her breasts half exposed and legs spread out, then start your sweet talk offensive. Of course, don't forget to ask him about his sexual fantasies.

If he loves you too, he will naturally ask you. At this time, you need to express yourself well. Of course, it’s best to pick up a magazine or play a DVD and tell him directly what you want today. I believe he will respond to you enthusiastically.

3. Straight to the point

Foreplay? He had never known there was such a thing. He got straight to the point in just two strokes, and started attacking before his body was even stretched. I really don't know whether to be with a flesh-and-blood person or with a stud without feelings.

Beauty killer: subtle reminders

Most men feel that foreplay is a waste of time and has nothing substantial to offer. But for most women, foreplay is the key to determining the quality of sex.

Gentle touch and sweet kiss will make her feel loved and respected. Convey this idea to your husband randomly and subtly in daily life, and I believe he will understand. It is understandable if he ignores foreplay due to passion once or twice, but this can easily make it a habit for him, so afterwards you have to remind him coquettishly: Don’t forget the previous “homework” next time.

4. Fast Runner

As soon as you react, he has already gotten to the point. As soon as you get into the mood, he has already called it a day. The passion that has just been ignited is just left hanging in the air? Solve it by yourself? Then what is the point of having a husband? If he saw it, how would I save face?

Beauty killer: control your own speed

When a group of women discuss this topic, they will come to a conclusion: Chinese men all suffer from premature ejaculation. Complaining is useless, and what's more, "slowness" brings equal pleasure to both parties, so feel free to make your request with confidence.

Still not working? At worst you can control the rhythm. Controlling the rhythm of sex is not just a man's job. Just like you are in charge of financial power, you should give orders, impress him with your tenderness, lead him, and be an independent and slow woman in bed.

You can be fully armed, even wear socks, and let him slowly open the gift you carefully prepared; you can also compete with him and challenge him to have sex the longest... Of course, you can also talk to him about the mystery of "slowness" under the bed on an evening while walking slowly on the street or in the park. If you really can't express yourself, you can always write something. If you really can't write, you can always find an article written by someone else.

5. Risk-taking

I always like to try some strange and bizarre methods, some of which are simply unbelievable, like an acrobatic performance. Although I tried my best to cooperate with him every time, I felt very uncomfortable. Sometimes I wondered how he could be so disgusting and was simply a pervert.

Beauty killer: defy tradition and communicate in a timely manner

Many couples have very different levels of acceptance of sex. If you fail to discuss this before marriage and discover that your views differ greatly after marriage, you must communicate in a timely manner.

If women keep accommodating their partner's sexual tricks, not only will they not feel satisfied, but some will also feel guilty and easily develop an aversion to and resistance to sex. However, you must remember that he is the closest person you live with every day, so there is no reason why you can't communicate.

Be brave to speak up with your ideas and suggestions. Maybe he doesn't like to think of new things every day, but he thinks you will like it, so he does this to please you. Moreover, you also need to make him understand that traditional postures are the main theme. After all, traditional postures guarantee pleasure.

As long as you show your determination to oppose traditional ways of having sex, I believe he will respect you. Of course, you shouldn't go to the extreme of being monotonous. Changing things up occasionally can bring some fun.

6. Erection Difficulty

You have tried your best and used all your skills, but he remains indifferent and doesn't give you any face at all. You are so tired and angry that you are almost going crazy. It's not easy to get angry. After all, men care about this almost as much as if you were cheating on them. It's really frustrating whether I say it or not.

Beauty's killer move: Gentle communication as a third party

If you can tolerate the previous situations, you must definitely deal with this one. Otherwise, I think what you have is not a husband, but a roommate.

Of course, this issue concerns men's dignity, so the wording must be careful. In terms of language, don't use a victim attitude. Communicate with him as if this problem has nothing to do with you. Be gentle.

Don't play the role of a consulting expert and preach to him. Of course, it’s time to take medicine in the end. If you need to see a psychologist, do so. Don't be afraid of embarrassment and avoid seeing a psychologist. During his treatment, you must support him and be his solid backing.