How can men be "bad" so that women love them more?

"Bad" means taking a small step beyond the scope allowed by your status, and doing so in a way that is more masculine in nature. That is "bad".

1. Thick skin:

It can also be said to be "bold" and not afraid of making a fool of oneself. Li Ao said that the top three writers of vernacular Chinese are: Li Ao Li Ao Li Ao! Even when you brag about yourself, you should be lively.

“Bad” men are not humble. Of course, he is not afraid of being rejected. Taiwan's Li Ao is also good at pursuing beautiful women he doesn't know. His current wife, Xiaotun, was pursued by him after he saw her when he was driving past the school gate. She has gorgeous legs. Li Ao said: "She has a leg, I have a hand."

2. Some naughty domineering:

Be firm, stubborn and tough, but at the same time, you must show a little bit of mischief and naughtiness. Only then can you be cute and have that "bad" effect we are talking about. Otherwise, you will be really domineering and not cute.

For example, when proposing, asking: "Do you want to marry me in this life or the next life?" Sometimes, a somewhat chauvinistic style can also have a cute "bad" effect.

3. Prank:

Scholar Qian Zhongshu took advantage of Yang Jiang taking a nap on the table and drew glasses on her face with a brush, which made Yang Jiang very angry and also very happy when she woke up. This move can easily make a girl blurt out: "You are so bad!"

When a man acts as a "bad boy", he seems heartless, and there is innocence in his "badness". This is what a man’s “badness” should be like. It is not pure badness, it is very complicated, and it must carry some kind of charming message.

4. Witty humor:

Once, when President Reagan was speaking at a piano recital in the White House, his wife Nancy accidentally fell onto the carpet with her chair. The audience screamed, but Nancy got up flexibly and returned to her seat amid the warm applause of more than 200 guests. Reagan, who was speaking, saw that his wife was not injured, so he inserted a witty remark: "Honey, I told you that you should only perform like this when I don't get applause."

5. Nonsense jokes:

He has an unruly personality and doesn't play by the rules. It is mainly expressed in words. Don't be sentimental. When someone sees a girl he has admired for a long time coming out of a bathhouse, he wants to get close to her and grabs the back of her head and says, "You are taking a bath, are there many men in there?" Zhu Bajie also greeted the fairy in a similar way when he saw her taking a bath: "Are you planting rice?"

6. Black elements:

Black people’s street culture (such as street dance) has become a fashion for men all over the world. It represents a kind of “unorthodox charm”, which actually carries a “bad” connotation.

Beckham, this popular man, was once called "black man" by the British media because the charm he exudes is the cultural trend of black people centered on "sports". A "bad" man is definitely not "bad" if he can't play ball.

7. Cool:

Sometimes you can also play the role of "keeping silent" and pretend to be profound; also, you can do some "rogue" things, such as playing finger-guessing games, bumping chests, or even some harmless bad habits, which can add points to your "bad" charm, such as chewing gum, or walking with one arm swinging like Putin, which is a bit like a killer.

The secret of why Bush Jr. is more popular with women than Blair is that he is more "cowboy". Although the latter spends a lot of pounds on skin care, he still loses in terms of coolness and not being "bad".

8. Cynicism:

Singing Yang Kun's song "It Doesn't Matter" with a disdainful smile and a confused look. Robbie Williams, a popular British singer who was voted the sexiest man in the world, is a person with such a cynical temperament. He is "bad", but no one can say what bad things he has done or why he is bad. Yes, "bad" is also a temperament.

9. Frank and not serious:

A real man may be a little rough, but more manly. When a girl asks, "What do you like about me?" you can answer honestly, "Your butt!"

You know, Cui Yongyuan’s greatest charm lies in telling the truth in the show. The truth is the most powerful, although it is not so "perfect" or "pure".

Correspondingly, don't dress too seriously, your hairstyle can be more trendy, and you can try more casual clothes. For example, a pair of beach pants will definitely look "badger" than a suit. Of course, you can also consider tattoos. The kind that are pasted on are simpler and easier to turn back to "good" form.

Good men are constrained by traditional habits and traditional thinking, focus on self-discipline, and their psychological reactions have naturally formed a "pretending to be good" mentality. Therefore, as long as you don’t pretend, you can be “very bad”!