5 reasons why men are reluctant to leave a woman

When "barbarism" is elevated to one of the criteria for judging whether a woman is "beautiful", it seems that men always turn away, tilting their necks and saying: There is always fish out there.

However, things change over time. When "barbarism" is elevated to one of the criteria for judging whether a woman is "beautiful", we see more and more men putting down their airs. What exactly makes them willing to stay by the women's side and listen to the men's explanations?

Mutual habit type

53% of the respondents said, "Every morning when I get up, my bed is neatly lined with clean clothes. When I go to the bathroom, my mouthwash cup is even filled with warm water and my toothbrush is already filled with toothpaste. When I get home from a social event at night, she will always have a glass of warm milk waiting for me no matter how late it is. She knows how to arrange every detail of my life without making you feel bored. These are the results of my nearly ten years of being with her. Love seems to have faded a little, but it is only because it has been integrated into more subtle details. The amount is not reduced, maybe even more. I am very clear about this." - 34 years old, advertising sales

Similar, suitable

"When we were together, we didn't think about staying together for a long time, we just felt that we got along well. We both like watching DVDs, listening to music, singing, eating spicy food, and doing sports. We have so many things in common that we will never get bored of each other because we have so many fun things to choose from. As time went by, we both began to cherish each other and eventually got married because we realized that there would be no one more suitable for me than him/her." - 29-year-old newspaper editor

"Turtle and Green Bean" are in love

The “turtle and mung bean” type accounts for 18% of the respondents. “I won’t leave her. I just like her. There is no reason. We are attracted to each other. If she is mung bean, I am willing to be a turtle.” — 26-year-old civil servant

What I owed him (her) in my previous life

"My friends often ask me frankly, why do I like her? I am recognized as a handsome guy, she is fatter and older than me, not the kind of pretty girl. She was not like that when she was 20, and she is even less so now that she is in her early 30s. She is not cute either, and her temper is worse than mine. I take better care of her in life. Have you ever thought about why I want to spend my whole life with her? Have you seen the Korean drama "What is Love"? There is no answer in dozens of episodes. I can only say that I owed her in my previous life." - 28-year-old department manager

Debt repayment guilt type

17% of the respondents "Because I have to spend a lot of time in the car every day, she prepared a large and exquisite kettle for me. In summer, it is filled with cool green bean soup, and in winter, it is filled with warm honey water. Many times before going out, I quietly stood behind her and watched her prepare the kettle for me. I can remember her focused eyes even when I close my eyes. I am very busy at work and inevitably ignore her, but she just supports me silently. I will not leave her. I feel that this lifetime is not enough for me to repay her kindness to me. - 31-year-old human resources

Simple love is a habit.

Whether men or women, this habit will become an indispensable part of each other's lives without them realizing it.

Perhaps this is a good explanation for the meaning of "love grows over time".