Women should not refuse the three needs of men

In a relationship between men and women, women are always the favored one. However, recently a group of men have called for women to pay attention to men's psychology in marriage life. In fact, men bear most of the burdens in the family and they are under great pressure. Therefore, as a woman, it is natural to understand and care about men. Today, I will analyze the skills of managing a happy marriage from the perspective of men's needs and see how to be a good wife!

1. When his career is not going well, he hopes that you can understand his needs.

Generally speaking, men pay more attention to their careers, because it is the foundation for their foothold in society, the need for their families to live a happier life, and it is also where the value of life is gained.

There is no man who does not take his work and career seriously, of course, except for those men who are not enterprising and do nothing.

Because of this, although men devote themselves to their careers, their careers may not be smooth sailing. There will always be setbacks or even crises.

At this time, the man's mental state is very fragile and he is very eager to get understanding and comfort from his family.

Many times, a man is unwilling to bring this kind of pressure and confusion home, and he may choose to bear it alone in silence.

At this time, as a wife, you should know how to use your sensitivity to observe the man’s inner loss, instead of just complaining that he did not accompany you or did something wrong. You need to be aware of his fragility at this moment, be more tolerant, understanding, and encouraging, and try to help him regain his confidence.

2. The need to have a drink with good friends on weekends

Men who love their work and career are inevitably busy and tired every day, constantly overdrawing their spirit and body. Many times, the usual way they want to adjust this state is to find two like-minded and common buddies to have a drink and chat during the rare leisure time on weekends.

But some women find it difficult to understand their men, thinking that their daily work is just eating and drinking, so why do they have to go out for drinks?

In fact, women don’t understand that daily business banquets and drinking parties are very difficult to relax, and can even make people nervous. They are completely different from drinking with good friends in private. Drinking parties at work are for socializing, while drinking parties with good friends are for relaxation. In order to let their men release pressure and relax their body and mind, considerate women should still know how to satisfy this small need of men, as long as your men are not immoral or make trouble after drinking. Otherwise, please do not block or reject their needs.

3. Don’t force him to be intimate when he is too tired

It is difficult for a man to cope with sexual life when he is extremely tired. A sensible woman should never force a man into having sex.

Women should always pay attention to the condition of their men and not force themselves on men who are not in the right condition in bed. That will often backfire and make men embarrassed and annoyed.

A harmonious and pleasant married life is a regulator of emotions, which contributes to the happiness of marriage and promotes intimacy between men and women.

Women must not make small mistakes on this sensitive issue, which will affect the feelings of both parties.

It’s still the same old saying, women must think more from the man’s perspective, and take good care of his daily life in daily life. When a man is tired, you might as well give him a massage and show your feminine style. You should know that your gentleness and thoughtfulness are the greatest motivation for his efforts.