Why do men like to swear?

If you insist that it's because men are born dirty, then there's nothing to say. However, I'd still like to analyze why they like this kind of tone.

First, some men talk nonsense just to kill time.

If a man talks dirty with his friends, with whom he can talk about everything, without any purpose, and with a smile on his face, it means that he has clearly separated his busy work from "sex". "Sex" is "sex" and work is work, the two should never be confused.

In other words, the work is either too monotonous, uninteresting and boring, or too hard and stressful. In such occasions, such obscene words are what the world calls "dirty words".

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Second, sometimes in order to enhance the harmonious atmosphere at the banquet, people often use dirty words.

A man who looks serious when he is not drinking often starts to swear after drinking three cups of wine. Men all agree that talking about serious matters at a banquet is the most disgusting thing.

So, if you want to win applause and make everyone interested, what topic should you talk about? After choosing from here and there, you will still come back to these dirty words that women despise.

No man would get angry at a dirty joke. While drinking, talk about things between men and women. Oddly enough, it often creates a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere. So they naturally treat it as a social topic.

However, there are roughly two types of such jokes - one is the "dirty talk" told by experienced people. It has two functions. The first is for the veterans in this field to show off their superb skills. The second is to use it to recall the glory of the past. Originally, this kind of thing should be buried deep in the heart and not told to anyone. Men, however, speak it out without any reservation - it is really difficult for women to understand this kind of mentality. However, in the world of men, including "sex", no matter what it is, as long as one has rich experience, he can get recognition from the same sex.

The other type is the “dirty talk” uttered by those with less experience. The motivation of this kind of people to say obscene things is simply that they don't want to be seen as inexperienced "newbies" or inflexible monsters. In other words, it is just nonsense based on wonderful vanity. After all, the best policy is to just listen in silence, but he just wants to join in the fun. As a result, they not only express their own experiences in an exaggerated way, but sometimes even tell stories that they have "made up".

Generally speaking, the "dirty jokes" told by sophisticated middle-aged men are very realistic and attractive, which have always been the most disgusting to women. On the other hand, young people with acne on their faces are enthusiastic and humorous when they talk dirty.

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As for the dirty talk said by the "good boys" in the office, it is nothing more than the backlash caused by the blocked sexual desire. In other words, it is equivalent to a kind of "sexual divergence". If you have such male colleagues around you, don't immediately judge them as the lowest kind of men. If the dirty talk is slightly humorous and humorous, just let it go!

Although mysophobia is a virtue, when you have entered adulthood, you might as well learn some tolerance! When you see male colleagues swearing, don't scream hysterically: "Don't be so vulgar! Don't you have no shame?"

Because if you call them that, they will definitely laugh at you behind your back and say, "She can be a standard matron." But then again, you can't show your easy-going nature and join them in reciting the "Three Character Classic" in Koushan. Doing so will not only damage your image as a lady, but they will also doubt your character.

Some men are so awful that they will deliberately say something unpleasant to the ear when they know a young woman is around. The purpose of their doing this is simply to see the woman's reaction. In such situations, the man who starts swearing first simply wants the woman to pay more attention to him. Because he lacks self-confidence and cannot approach women in a legitimate way, he has to resort to this method. Therefore, if you respond to it, you will fall into his trap. Even if you act coquettishly or shyly towards him, it will do you no good.

What should you do when you encounter this situation? The smartest way is to pretend that you don't care. This is easy to say but very difficult to do. It is not easy for a young woman with a strong temper to pretend that nothing has happened. Therefore, the best passive strategy is to praise the other person first and then express your dissatisfaction to him. You might as well say to him: "Mr. So-and-so, you are very capable at work. However, once you start using bad words, people will have a very bad impression of you!"

You just don't say that to him, and the effect will be very good. After hearing what you said, the other person will immediately shut his dirty mouth and never dare to say another word.

Lessons - The greatest effect is to make the enemy aware of his tactics, which can only bring about the opposite effect.