Women, please don't give away your precious things too early

I believe that all netizens have heard that "getting pregnant before marriage is extremely harmful", right? But how exactly is it “extremely harmful”? The medical community was the first to point out the dangers of premature premarital sex: teenage abortion, premature pregnancy and premature childbirth, all of which are likely to cause gynecological diseases. Educators, psychologists and legal scholars are also worried about the prevalence of premarital sex. They all agree that premarital sex will inevitably hinder a person's healthy physical and mental growth, cause a dual physical and psychological crisis, and have adverse effects on a person's personality structure, moral quality and value orientation, and may even affect her entire life.

Let’s take a look at this: in the 1960s and 1970s, there was a so-called sexual liberation movement sweeping the United States, which was very sensational and vigorous. The central idea is to "rebel against tradition", abandon traditional constraints on sexual desire, and break through one's own "sexual protection barrier". Later, it gradually spread to Western countries, Japan, and China, and its influence covered countries all over the world, causing difficult to manage health and social problems - sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS, drug abuse, unmarried or extramarital pregnancy, promiscuity, promiscuity and teenage mothers, psychological and interpersonal difficulties, dropping out of school, unemployment, poverty and crime, etc. Scholars have pointed out that once anyone has sexual relations with another person, it is as if he or she has sexual relations with all the "sexual chain involved" behind this person, and the harm is obvious.

Makarenko, a famous Soviet educator, pointed out: "When a girl starts her sex life too early, it not only leaves physical and mental trauma, but also produces a complex and morbid psychology. 'Scrutinizing' eyes are cast on her from all sides, some are humiliating, some are vulgar and obscene, some are sympathetic, and some are condemning. All these eyes have a common meaning, that is, they think she is guilty. They make the girl always unable to forget her pain and make her reflect endlessly on her loss of virginity. At the same time, due to the loss of personality, the girl who has lost her virginity often develops a stupid and blind sense of complacency, thinking that she has become a young woman, has experiences and experiences that other girls do not have, and can control the men she meets, etc."

According to research by modern American experts, sexually active girls aged 12 to 16 may be involved in many dangerous behaviors. The risk comparison between girls who have lost their virginity and those who are still virgins is: 6 times more likely to attempt suicide; 13 times more likely to run away from home; 9 times more likely to be arrested by the police; 5 times more likely to be suspended from school; and 10 times more likely to take drugs.

Moreover, premarital sex and promiscuity among young girls can also bring serious problems and impacts to their future marriages: comparing their spouses with previous sexual objects, they are more likely to be unfaithful to their spouses or be disliked by their husbands; there is a possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases; and they are more likely to get divorced. In the United States, the rate at which women are abused by their cohabiting boyfriends is 50 times higher than the rate at which they are abused by their husbands. "Sex" is a matter between two people and a moral issue. As such, it also has rules and regulations. Without rules, there will be no order. Once the rules are violated or destroyed, adverse consequences are likely to occur. It involves the past, present and future, individuals and society, as well as love and career, marriage and family.

All facts have ruthlessly proved that girls' early sexual activity will only sow a bitter fruit for them. Many girls, suffering from both physical and mental destruction, have prematurely ended their lives and futures that should have been colorful. Some can only bear pressure from all sides, silently enduring with sad tears, and some even kill their own "newborn babies" with their own hands, ignorantly depriving them of the right to life and facing criminal sentencing... It can be said that early sexual activity for girls is "harmful" and has no benefits.