10 actions that men may misunderstand as seduction

In our lives, women must keep a certain distance when interacting or communicating with men, so that you can make men fall in love with you more in the workplace or in life. Ladies, do you know what actions of yours in life will make men misunderstand that you are seducing him?

1. The office and my vague physical closeness 8.11%

Interpretation: When you are working in the office, you pat him on the shoulder, just treating him as your buddy in a friendly way, but such a subtle gesture is a great temptation to him. Women's unconscious actions to express closeness often create ripples in men's hearts. Although the so-called "no physical contact between men and women" argument is already outdated, that kind of collective unconscious idea still exists deep in his heart.

After all, in this society, usually only men take the initiative to touch a woman's body. He will think, since men often have sexual intentions when they take the initiative to touch a woman's body, then women are no exception, right? The way for men and women to get along in the office is to keep a proper distance based on each other's reactions. If you receive his ambiguous eyes, you may need to "restrain" your impulsive behavior.

2. Praise me for being sexy and attractive 13.51%

Interpretation: Why did she compliment me on my sexiness? Is she attracted to me? Is she hinting that I can date her? A man may think this way because when he compliments a woman on her sexiness, his sexual intentions are stirring, so he uses his own thoughts to speculate about the woman. He doesn't know that you just saw him alone at the party and felt sorry for him because no one paid attention to him. You praised him for being handsome, and he treated himself as a vegetable. For such a man, a woman can just keep silent.

3. The female coach wants to give me private lessons 51.35%

Interpretation: Relatively speaking, the gym is still a place full of spring. Whether in "Sex and the City" or "Desperate Housewives", male fitness trainers in the gym are often the objects of women's fantasies. By the same token, is it easier for men to have dirty thoughts when a woman dresses sexy and looks dynamic as a fitness trainer?

Moreover, this "fantasy" of men is actually closely related to the sport itself. Because exercise promotes male hormone secretion, building muscle can increase testosterone secretion. Scientists even recommend that men exercise before dating because the testosterone level in men reaches its peak within 48 hours after weightlifting training. Exercise itself is an aphrodisiac for men, so in this situation that can easily cause misunderstandings among men, women must express their thoughts clearly. Of course, if you really want to seduce a handsome guy, that's another matter.

4. After the party, she asked me to take her home 48.65%

Interpretation: After a party, you signaled him to be a gentleman and take you home. But he will think, this is not an excuse for you to hint him to have sex with you. Because men often use such excuses to walk into a woman's home, such as "Let me take you home", and after sending her to the door, they will smile and say to her, "Won't you invite me to visit your boudoir?" Those ambiguous stories often start like this, so put yourself in the man's shoes, the man will think that if you let him take you home, it is undoubtedly a sexual appointment. I swear to God, if you are just a little scared and have no other thoughts, just tell him you will drop him off at the door, thank him, pay for the taxi yourself, and let him go home quickly.

5. She wants to read my palm 16.22%

Interpretation: When a woman asks a man to stretch out his hand for her palm reading, the man will feel that the woman is making an ambiguous invitation to him. He will think, is she looking for an excuse to say something to me, or is she hinting that she is a good match for me? When men decide to pursue a woman, they will always find various excuses, and palm reading is one of their specialties. The so-called marriage is destined by heaven. They don't know that sometimes women like to read palms, but it's just a hobby, just like they like to talk about gossip, fashion and cosmetics. Being obsessed with horoscopes or palmistry is a sign of being a woman.

6. Let me teach her how to swim 35.14%

Interpretation: You asked him to teach you how to swim in the swimming pool with all sincerity; when you put on a sexy bikini, your hot body instantly made him distracted. Men generally think with their lower body, while women think with their upper body. He will think that you are trying to seduce me under the guise of swimming.

There is a joke circulating in the gallery. There is a leaf hanging on the sensitive part of a naked woman. The husband is waiting in front of the painting without moving. His wife asks him what he is waiting for in confusion. He says he is waiting for autumn to come so that the leaf can fall off. Men tend to slide easily from art to eroticism, while women tend to slide easily from eroticism to art. There is no difference between high and low, it's just a gender characteristic of men.

7. The female secretary put a warm coat on me 48.00%

Interpretation: We have to admit one fact: the aftereffects of patriarchal society still exist today. Even if a female secretary is not feminine enough, a man still feels that she is his. Even if she made a cup of tea for him, he would feel that she was "adding fragrance to his sleeves", not to mention putting on a warm coat for him when he was working overtime!

It is really difficult to judge a female secretary's sense of propriety: if she is too professional, he will feel that she lacks femininity; if she is too affectionate, he will feel that she has ulterior motives. If the female secretary has ulterior motives, he will feel it is too much trouble; but if the female secretary has no ulterior motives at all, he will feel very disappointed. From concubines in ancient times to female secretaries in modern times, men often cannot distinguish the difference in their identities, so men will feel that every female secretary they get close to has ulterior motives. As a female secretary, of course, your professional qualities must be excellent so that he can respect you for your professionalism.

8. She showed me her sexy cleavage 21.62%

Interpretation: Psychology and Mind Reading learned that a survey of men from an authoritative American emotional research institution told us that for men, breasts are among the top five sexiest parts of a woman's body. Breasts have special meanings for any man. After leaving a woman's breasts at an early age, they spend their entire lives looking for another breast.

It can be said that any exposure of a woman's breasts will lead men to sexual associations. Although women nowadays wear cooler clothes in the summer, you probably don't want to make men have some inappropriate associations. Therefore, in certain occasions that require you to demonstrate your professional qualities, it is more appropriate to dress appropriately.

9. Invite me to dance 29.73%

Interpretation: The wanton and revelry of the Dionysian dance is full of the meaning of encouraging men and women to have bold sexual intercourse. In primitive society, both men and women in Eastern and Western cultures would celebrate after work by dancing. During the dance, things that happened under the mulberry trees and willow trees could easily happen naturally. In modern society, without sacrifices and carnivals, men began to look for other channels. To men, a woman dancing passionately in a bar is often seen as a precursor to erotic temptation. The music was hazy, the lights were dim, and there was physical contact. It was hard not to let him have wild thoughts.

There is a famous Oscar quote: Men are animals that cannot withstand temptation. A little stimulation can easily make their sexual consciousness sensitive - even if a woman's mind is only on dancing. If you don't want to seduce a man, try to avoid dancing with him in ambiguous situations like in bars.

10. My wife’s best friend asked me to do manual labor at her home 35.14%

Interpretation: It was very normal for sisters and maids to marry the same person in ancient China. However, it is impossible for men to realize such a pipe dream in modern society. Therefore, men turn to fantasizing about their wives or girlfriends' girlfriends, intending to have the best of both worlds. What's more, many single girls' dates with men often start by asking the men to help with some heavy work.

This is because he takes the opportunity to show his gentlemanly or chivalrous spirit to impress women, and secondly, to prove to women that it is difficult for women to survive without the help of men. When his girlfriend's single girlfriend asks him to help with manual labor at home, he will think, isn't this just an opportunity for her to get close to him? If you are unlucky enough to meet the husband of a girlfriend like this, stay away from him as soon as possible.