What men want to do most to their ex-girlfriends

The eventual failure of premature love often leaves some regrets in people's hearts. For this reason, the song "You, My Deskmate" is often sung by married people. Everyone's feelings about an old love can only be felt but not expressed in words. The lingering memory of the love affair in youth may accompany some people for a lifetime.

1. Want to know what kind of man the other person married.

Some loves are defeated by distance, some loves are defeated by the passage of time, some loves are defeated by parents’ separation, and some loves are defeated by the working environment. However, people are changing every moment. Especially many men, after middle age, have successful careers and are fully capable of overturning their views on love when they were of marriageable age. However, how can they get back the person they missed, because nowadays, both parties have their own families.

For this reason, men tend to assume that their ex-girlfriend's husband is their love rival. Since you assume that he is your love rival, you will be curious to find out some basic information about him/her. For example, how is the other person's job, what is the other person's family background, whether the other person is good enough to your ex-love, or even want to know whether the other person is more handsome than you.

Especially those men who were abandoned by their ex-lovers hope that they are better at work than their ex-lovers’ husbands, in order to imply that their ex-lovers made a very wrong decision to give up on them.

2. Want to know whether the other person is living a better life than you.

Men's thoughts are very complicated. Usually, men who are not doing well will ignore the call of their old love, because they think it is embarrassing to meet their old love again in this state. Only those men who are doing well in their lives are willing to take the initiative to look for their ex-love or be willing to accept the temptation from their ex-love.

Men who are doing well in their lives really want to know how their ex-love is doing. If her ex-love is not doing well, he will do his best to help her. When a man is willing to help his ex-girlfriend, his motives are not simple. First, to show off one's own ability; second, to imply that the other party did not choose the right person; third, one really hopes that the other party can turn things around with one's help. Because most men don't want to see the woman they truly loved living a hard life.

3. Want to know whether the other person still loves you.

Men have another complex, that is, the woman they loved first will always be a dream in their hearts, especially those women they loved but did not taste the forbidden fruit.

When a man sees a woman like this, he will have all kinds of fantasies.

The strongest thought is whether the other person still loves me. With such thoughts, your curiosity about your old love will grow. To this end, we will try every possible means to turn dreams into reality.

For many men who are clichéd, the most cost-effective way to shatter the dream that a woman has woven for them is to possess her body.

When a man has such an idea, he will take action.

Usually, the tricks men use are: 1) unhappy marriage; 2) reminiscing about the past; 3) being attentive to the woman like a grandson. In this state, a woman who is regarded as a 'dream' by a man should never fulfill the man's 'awakening from the dream', but should choose to withdraw with loyalty to the marriage. Otherwise, the final result will definitely be that after being slept with by the man, she will be ruthlessly abandoned by him.

4. After meeting your old love, you will be disappointed with him/her and doubt your original aesthetic views.

Time is a butcher's knife. Not everyone will have all kinds of fantasies after seeing their old love, but the beautiful fantasies will be shattered immediately after seeing the other person.

Because, after breaking up, I have had various fantasies about my old love in my heart countless times. However, when we meet again after several years, I find that the other person and I are no longer on different life trajectories.

I am still in my prime, while she has become a haggard woman. At this point, the man even began to doubt his original aesthetic views.

The beautiful memories collapsed after the meeting, and also tore up my own beautiful memories of many years. Men will retain some hatred towards their old love: Why should we go back there? If we didn’t meet again, at least there would be memories, but now, there is nothing.

In view of all the above, I want to tell men that the concern for an old love may just be a attachment to pure love. If you are destined to meet your old love again, giving each other a smile and a sincere blessing may be enough.