Why are men so obsessed with romantic encounters?

For men, a romantic encounter is like a kind of pleasure in life. Getting to know different beauties and having a romantic love talk may also be what many men expect. So, what are the psychological factors of men's romantic encounters? Are men's romantic encounters really that good? Let's find the answers from this article!

A romantic encounter is a man's life pleasure

Men's desire for beautiful women is most vividly reflected in their repeated romantic encounters. Through men's subsequent exaggeration and exaggeration, a romantic encounter is simply one of the greatest pleasures in a man's life, a confirmation of his status as a man, and a compliment to his personal self-confidence. It has become an open secret of almost every man, a secret full of desires. Starting from the man's world, every train has people with different looks. They use bold thoughts and bold eyes to find the few romantic encounters that belong to them in their lives.

Why do men never tire of having affairs?

In fact, stories about romantic encounters have always been a topic that can never be exhausted. The oldest Chinese book, "The Book of Songs", says "The orioles are singing on the island in the river. The fair lady is the ideal match for the gentleman." That is the best picture of a romantic encounter. Later, "The Legend of the White Snake" and "The West Chamber" became household names. In fact, love at first sight and endless longing are precisely the main characteristics of a romantic encounter.

China has always advocated romantic encounters

With the help of traditional Chinese culture and the influence of modern European and American culture, men, especially intellectuals, were the first to follow the trend and start having "affairs" openly. In "The Fortress Besieged", Fang Hongjian and the extremely corrupt Miss Bao were having an affair on the oil tanker on their way back to China, but he found that they became strangers as soon as the ship arrived in Miss Bao's Hong Kong. He really didn't understand how much real emotion was involved in this affair, or whether it was just physical desire.

Then Fang Hongjian exchanged glances with Miss Su, who was on the same ship with him. When he arrived at Miss Su's house, he met Miss Su's cousin Miss Tang. He won the hearts of several young ladies and for a while he didn't know how to deal with them as he was too busy to handle them. It can be seen that at least one should not have too many romantic encounters at the same time. Too many will only create troubles like Fang Hongjian, and end up pleasing no one. In this way, a romantic encounter may be troublesome.

Compared with Fang Hongjian's affair, "The Lover" written by Duras is much more fascinating. It deepens men's desires: in addition to a dutiful wife, men subconsciously hope to meet a confidante. A story with a certain degree of novelty, adventure and excitement, and a romantic encounter is perfect for these stories.

Influenced by contemporary film culture

Contemporary movies have also made open affairs a fashion. Titanic, a cliché Hollywood romance, captivated both men and women and excited and intoxicated the audience. However, they eventually paid a price for this affair.

Men's romantic encounter mood

Men across the country differ in their local characteristics, but they all have a common desire for romantic encounters. The following summarizes the romantic encounter moods of men in Beijing, Shanghai, and Shenzhen, representing the majority of men's hearts...

Beijing's romantic encounters are all caused by men

Beijing's gender should be male. Being the political and cultural center, Beijing men have to be "arrogant"! They like to pat their chests and make promises, as if they can do anything, which fascinates girls. Therefore, Beijing men are most likely to become the protagonists of love at first sight, and the first impression makes people excited and heart-warming.

"Man" and "brother" seem to be the only words that can be spoken fluently and proudly by Beijing men.

Shanghai's romantic encounters are due to its humid climate

Shanghai's feng shui, climate and soil are all suitable for growing mushrooms, blooming flowers and having romantic encounters. In Shanghai, where the cost of living is high, air is free and sweet words are free too. Marriage is a luxury, but love is simple. In Isetan Plaza, the creamy chocolate aroma of imported ice cream wafts in the air, sweet and sticky, all the fragrance of love. Here, if you don’t hold hands, you feel lost; if you don’t kiss, you feel thirsty; if you don’t hug, you feel empty! If you don’t fall in love, you feel abnormal.

Love is the cultural classic of this city and also the soft consumption of this Asian capital.

This should be a beautiful encounter, not just a romantic encounter.

So, the romantic encounter here is a bit like getting caught in the rain, and everyone sometimes doesn’t bring an umbrella, especially men.

Shenzhen romantic encounter due to loneliness

This is a city that is so young that it is a little out of control, and it is also the city that is most filled with nostalgia, love and hatred. Most of the people here are from other places. They are open-minded and have no family ties. They can indulge in love more freely. The country is far away, so they are more open and more easily hurt.

Shenzhen is the first city to say "time is money". Some people ask: Maybe Shenzhen's speed has also changed the direction of love? Shenzhen is a city of shared housing. Does that mean it is also a city of cohabitation? The streets are full of lonely people, so the men here are particularly flammable and can be easily ignited.

The woman saw through it at a glance. Shenzhen has love, but more importantly, it has money. Because of loneliness, bars become a good place to go. Girls who go to the bar don’t have to spend their own money, as there will be men lining up to pay for them. Some people say this is also a way of having a romantic encounter in Shenzhen.

Here, there is a famous "Love Road". In a bustling city, it is difficult to find such a generous love "path". Walking on that road, an invitation to love is written on everyone's face. The road is not wide, which is conducive to walking side by side or one after another? The road is very long, with a total length of about 4 kilometers. One side faces the sea directly, and the other side is a green belt with swaying palm trees, separating the Binhai Avenue with an endless stream of vehicles behind. This is Shenzhen's "Lovers' Avenue". Love happens on the road, and this is a romantic encounter.