What women really feel after being raped

Many friends have a virgin complex and think that if their girlfriend is not a virgin, she is not worthy of them, and breaking up seems to be the only possibility. Regardless of whether you are a virgin or not, you hope to get your girlfriend's first time. This idea is understandable, but I hope you won't be too obsessed with it, because it is very likely to make you miss a beautiful love, hurt a girl, and make her lose the courage to live.

The inner monologue of a raped girl:

That year, when my sophomore year started, I came to school three days in advance because my home was in another province. At that time, my roommates had not arrived yet. There are only a few students in the whole building and the dormitory management is very lax. That noon, I was packing my things in the dormitory. I didn't close the door and someone knocked on it and said he was looking for someone. I told him that school hadn't started yet and the students hadn't arrived yet, and then he went out. At that time I didn't care about it, thinking he was a classmate's friend or a relative or something like that, so I didn't take it seriously. But after a while he came over again. This time he walked straight into the house and locked the door. I was so scared. Then he came over and choked me. I was in pain. Then things happened. He said that if I dared to call the police, he would never let me go. He also wanted to take my QQ. I was afraid that he would really cause trouble, so I just said a random QQ number.

I kept crying, because I studied medicine and I knew some basic physiological knowledge, and then I ran out to buy emergency contraceptive pills. Because it was my first time, I didn't know the name of the medicine. When I arrived at the clinic, I cried and asked for birth control pills. The person selling the medicine was an old woman. She had a look of contempt and said some ugly words. I wanted to die at that time.

Gradually, a boy came into my life. He is from another school. He is sunny and loving. One day we went out to play ice skating together. He took me skating. His hands were very warm, which made me find the long-lost sense of security. Maybe God was blessing me. That day he texted me asking me to be his girlfriend, and I was very happy and agreed. It should be said that that period of time was very sweet, but the good times did not last long. When I told him the story that happened to me, he backed off and gradually became cold and indifferent. Until one stormy night, this relationship finally came to an end, tearing open another bloody wound in my already broken heart!

I met him a few years later. He didn't ask about my past or what happened in the past because he had a failed marriage. Someone once said that a man who has been divorced once is a treasure, and a man who has been divorced many times is weed. This is absolutely true. He is a good man, not romantic, but very down-to-earth. After going through so many ups and downs, I realized that it is good to live a simple life...

Because her ex-boyfriend despised her for not being a virgin and abandoned her, she was hurt again! Fortunately, the girl in the article finally found a man who loved her, had a warm family, and ended her painful days, otherwise this would have easily become a tragedy. At the same time, there is another thought: I have fallen to the bottom of my life, and the days to come will only get better and better. After experiencing hardships, there will be a better tomorrow. Friends who are experiencing difficulties, don’t just see the misfortune in front of you and ignore the possible happiness in the future!

The experience of an unfortunate girl made me wonder, is it really that important for my girlfriend to be a virgin? Some misfortunes happening to a good girl are not enough to deny a girl's inner qualities. It is one-sided to judge that a girl is not a good girl just because she is not a virgin. Leaving her will be a great harm to her! If it were me, if there was love, I would be with her.

Out of responsibility for yourself, you hope that your girlfriend is a virgin. This feeling is understandable, but if you want to break up with your girlfriend because she is not a virgin, you should consider your girlfriend's feelings. Breaking up with her because she is not a virgin is a great harm to her! Cherish the people around you, so that you are qualified to enjoy a beautiful relationship. Unlike my friends who have a virgin complex, even if my girlfriend is not a virgin, I still think my girlfriend is worth loving!