Only when you satisfy a woman's four major needs can she truly belong to you.

Whenever foreplay is mentioned, many people will associate it with physical stimulation. Of course, direct physical stimulation is the most effective for the sexual intercourse of both spouses, but couples can change the way of foreplay and try some "non-sexual sex games". In fact, the best foreplay is to have some emotional preparation and hints before foreplay.

The best "sex game" should satisfy people's four major needs: touch, vision, smell, and hearing. Each need can bring a woman into a different stage of sex.

The most important way to satisfy the sense of touch is through touching, which does not necessarily mean "getting straight to the point" and stimulating sensitive areas. It can be a more gentle caress, such as rubbing the other person's back while taking a bath or gently massaging his or her tired shoulders.

The sense of smell utilizes the aphrodisiac effect of fragrance or body odor. You can be like Marilyn Monroe and only wear Chanel No. 5 perfume when you go to bed, or you can deliberately highlight your body odor with a bit of sweat, or let the fragrance of shower gel after taking a bath create a clean and refreshing atmosphere. In short, let your own scent surround the other person.

"Visual" satisfaction includes watching a favorite movie together, preferably with some "restricted" scenes; or wearing sexy lingerie that perfectly sets off the body curves.

"Hearing" is the most important of these four needs, which is "linguistic teasing." Saying a few sweet words by the pillow, praising the other person's strong or slim body curves, praising his (her) long eyelashes, high nose bridge, seductive lips, or telling a few dirty jokes can effectively mobilize the body's response and stimulate the other person's orgasm faster.

Remember the importance of breathing. Breathing plays an important role in every kind of exercise, and sex is no exception. The better your breathing during passionate sex, the better the sex. Try practicing deep breathing to improve your sexual performance.

Teamwork, sex between men and women requires the joint efforts of both parties, and should consider the mutual benefits of both parties rather than working independently. Only when both parties work together can sex be interesting. Exchange the initiative. If you are always passive during the movement and have no chance to gain the upper hand, it will inevitably lead to boredom. The same is true for sex. When men and women take turns taking the initiative, sex will feel more fresh.