Modern women have these stupid ideas

As a sentimental woman, will you let your beauty and sexiness fade away? But how many women would knowingly commit the same mistake? Only when they discover it do they suddenly look back and realize that there is no cure for regret in this world. Let's take a look at the wrong things you have been doing that are harming your body!

Stupid idea 1: You can have multiple abortions and it’s painless anyway

Your fantasy: Abortion is very convenient and can be performed with anesthesia, so it is painless. A quick nap without any pain or itch can solve the problem. It’s simple and quick, and we can be high again soon!

The body's sincere confession: Abortion surgery requires multiple dilations of the cervix and curettage of the uterine cavity, which will inevitably cause serious trauma to the cervix and endometrium. If there is a lot of bleeding during and after surgery, anemia may occur. If the disinfection during the operation is not strict or hygiene is neglected after the operation, intrauterine infection will occur, followed by pelvic inflammatory disease. If uterine perforation occurs accidentally during surgery, it can be life-threatening in severe cases.

The Doctor advises earnestly: You must take effective contraceptive measures. Multiple abortions will ruin your fertility. Using condoms and other contraceptive methods is the simplest, most effective and suitable for most people. If you do not consider pregnancy within six months, drug contraception is also suitable for you, but it is not advisable to take contraceptives during breastfeeding because contraceptives will be secreted with breast milk. If you already have one baby and don't want to have another, an IUD may be more convenient.

Stupid belief 2: Not having children will make you look younger

Your fantasy: Let’s not have children, keep a pretty face, a slim body, delay aging, and live in our sweet world of two forever.

The body’s honest confession: If you remain infertile, estrogen levels in your body will remain high, increasing your risk of breast cancer, uterine fibroids, and endometriosis. The ovaries stop ovulating during pregnancy, and they also stop ovulating for a period of time during the postpartum lactation period. Therefore, the ovaries can take a temporary rest and maintenance, reducing damage to the ovaries and lowering the chance of cancer. Because the ovaries delay the release of these twenty or so eggs, the result is that women who have given birth have their menopause delayed, and they retain their youth.

The Doctor advises earnestly: Since you have chosen to be a DINK, you should have regular gynecological examinations and pay attention to the results of breast cancer screening, gynecological B-ultrasound, cervical smears, etc. You should carefully consider whether you still want to be a DINK around the age of 35. Not only is it difficult to get pregnant at an advanced age, the risk of fetal malformation is high, and it also has a great impact on the mother's health.

Stupid belief 3: Having a cesarean section will keep you in good shape

Your wild idea: I am really afraid of the pain of childbirth and my body shape, so let me have a cesarean section. It will not affect my sex life, and I can also choose an auspicious birthday for my baby.

A sincere confession from the body: The surgery cuts off the entire layer of skin, muscle and uterus in the abdomen, so the body's recovery will take a greatly extended period of time. There are more complications such as postoperative bleeding and post-anesthesia headache, and the pain of the incision lasts longer. In particular, if the fetal head is not squeezed through the birth canal, it will affect the baby's sensory and intellectual development. It will also be more likely to cause accidental inhalation of foreign objects in the respiratory tract during delivery, and even cause neonatal pneumonia.

The Doctor advises earnestly: If you are afraid that natural childbirth will relax the birth canal and affect your sexual experience, then Kegel exercises can help you. First contract your pelvic floor muscles for 10 to 15 seconds, then relax for 5 seconds. Repeat 10-20 times, 3 times a day or more. You can do it while standing, sitting or lying down, which not only makes childbirth easier, but also makes your reproductive organs healthier and stronger, making the sensation more intense.

Stupid belief 4: Not breastfeeding won’t hurt your breasts

Your fantasy: Breastfeeding is very harmful to your figure! Look at those breastfeeding mothers, their breasts are like deflated balloons, soft and sagging. Can they still win back their husbands’ love?

The body's sincere confession: During breastfeeding, the baby's sucking constantly stimulates the mother's mammary tissue, promotes mammary gland redevelopment, and makes the mother's breasts fuller and firmer. Even if you do not breastfeed, the mammary glands will still secrete milk for a period of time, which will accumulate in the breasts and cause mastitis or lobular hyperplasia. Only breast milk can perfectly meet all the needs of an infant, and its nutrition will change according to the baby's needs. Not breastfeeding really hurts your baby.

The Doctor advises: To make your breasts more beautiful, you can drink more milk, red date soup, pig skin soup or chicken feet soup, and eat more green peppers, carrots, tomatoes, potatoes, etc., which can not only enlarge your breasts but also provide comprehensive nutrition. In addition, doing chest expansion exercises, swimming, playing ball, running, and exercising the chest muscles can make the chest more upright. Try to let your baby feed from both breasts alternately to promote balanced growth of the mammary glands on both sides.