15 real thoughts in men's subconscious mind

1. He would never marry someone who easily goes to bed

Many young girls mistakenly believe that a man has a responsibility to you after sleeping with you. In fact, this is stupid. No matter what method he uses to make you agree to sleep with him, it will only speed up his pace to escape from you.

Some petty bourgeoisie women think that this is normal and that it is for both parties to get what they want. Yes, you can think so, but I want to tell you.

When you treat a man with this attitude, all he needs from you is "sex." So does that mean sex shouldn't exist in a relationship? No. Put sex after he respects you from the bottom of his heart.

When he thinks that you are not a casual woman, at least you will not use this method to please men, or you can do this with any man, he will think that sleeping with you is a pleasant thing. It is not easy to get.

2. Men will clearly distinguish between a temporary playmate and a wife to be married to.

Yes, the more mature and successful a man is, the more standards he has. He can even tell at first sight whether a woman is for sex, for a relationship, or even for marriage. If you can't make him marry you, don't be his temporary playmate, otherwise you will get nothing. No man would spend too much time on a playmate because, just like when you buy clothes, you are always looking forward to the next piece in the store. And a wife is like a house. For him, it is stable, reliable, and requires emotional investment to pursue.

3. Men are initially attracted to women by their appearance, cuteness and coquettishness.

But if a man thinks about marriage, he doesn't want a little woman who only knows how to act coquettishly. What he wants is a wife who can go through ups and downs with him, who is strong and confident, and who has an interest in life. Many women have a wrong idea that men like the kind of delicate and petite women who need to be held in their hands and protected. Actually, it is not. Unless it is a very young boy, or an immature man, he needs a woman who is even less mature than him to show his masculinity. A truly mature man, when choosing a wife, never wants to marry a little woman who needs care and protection. He wants a wife, not a daughter. Because men are actually very insecure animals, and they may not be as confident in themselves as you see. From childhood to adulthood, their families taught them to be strong, not to cry, not to be weak, and to be like a man.

4. Will a man lead you to have sex? Absolutely.

All men understand that if he convinces a woman that their relationship has the potential to develop into a long-term relationship, she will be more likely to go to bed with him and will be more engaged during sex. They will do some very tricky things. For example, telling you that his mother would rather have a daughter or prefers girls. Or he tells you that he bought a new house and asks you to help him choose the decoration plan. Then the woman would most likely surrender immediately. Whoever is captured first loses. Men understand this very well. Once you go to bed with him without thinking. Then you can easily be eaten to death by him. Some men will even remind you in advance or afterwards not to give in too quickly. -----You would think he is a good man. It's your own fault. Totally wrong. He's just reminding you that he doesn't want to be responsible. When he puts on a saintly face to teach you, that is when he leaves you without looking back.

5. Men are weaker, meaner, and more immature than you think

I used the word "imagined" because women are usually good at imagining men to be taller, braver, more generous, and more independent than themselves. I can tell you responsibly: this is all an illusion. You'll understand when you have a son. When encountering problems, men usually defend themselves by attacking others, while women usually defend themselves with tears. But this does not mean that men are more psychologically receptive to setbacks than women. On the contrary, they resort to attacking because they cannot accept setbacks, and attacking shows that they do not accept it. And tears mean: they endured in silence. So don't ever think that your man is so generous and strong. On the contrary, they don't like you to argue with them in a crying way. In their eyes, this is simply unreasonable.

6. A man will test every woman he dates to see if she is worth marrying.

Unlike women investigating men's past, men are more keen on testing women's present. They often play tricks on you in order to get to know you better. Because men know very well that everyone is good at disguising themselves in the early stages of a relationship. He wants to know if what's inside you is crazier than the patients in the mental hospital. Still able to get along with him. In fact, men's temptations are everywhere in the early stages of a relationship, but most women have never noticed them.

7. Men like to look at sexy beauties, but they just like to look at them.

The word "sexy" is never considered by men when they marry a wife. Of course, they may marry a very sexy wife and live happily, but they will never marry her just because she is sexy.

Many girls mistakenly believe that men like sexy beauties. Then they tie fishnet stockings on their radish legs and open their necklines below the diaphragm according to what is written in some magazines, and go out on a date with their boyfriends. They think that showing a little cleavage can make their boyfriends crazy. Little do they know that such behavior will immediately make men put you on the list of "just for fun". No man wants to see his wife showing cleavage on the street. Really. Even if you are very sexy.

8. Men usually won't consider marrying a woman who causes him trouble or is unpopular, no matter how attractive she is.

Women often fall in love with prodigals and do not look back, regardless of the objections of their family and friends. But a man cannot marry a woman who is not accepted by the people around him. You may not know how to have sex, but you can still be a good person. If you really can't get along with his bunch of bad friends. Then you have to at least make his family accept you. If you can't do either of these two things, then at least you should be a pitiful little woman. Because from ancient times to the present, this is the only type of woman that men can elope with.

9. A man doesn’t want to marry a perfect woman, he wants a wife who is interesting.

Due to misleading information from society, magazines, television, etc. Women usually think that if they are beautiful, rich, speak multiple languages, and are proficient in cooking, piano and dancing. Then you will get all the respect and love you desire. Therefore, women usually regard those who are very beautiful and look sweet and gentle as objects of envy. They are believed to be the beauties that men most want to marry. Yes, the man did think so at first. But when they return to reality, they find that if they meet a woman who is too perfect, too sweet and too submissive, they will soon get bored.

10. "Men love because of sex, women have sex because of love" - ​​a complete lie

I want to tell you a truth - in fact, women are more likely to fall in love because of sex. Therefore, it is women who are most likely to cheat after marriage. Men usually cheat for fun, but if a woman cheats, it is basically difficult for her to get back. That's because----women are more likely to fall in love because of sex. So why is the saying that men love because of sex so prevalent on the Internet? The first reason is: men want to instill wrong ideas in women so that women can be more easily deceived into bed. ----Almost all men are consistent in this aspect. Another reason is that this sentence makes them feel very manly. So it is widely recognized. Men usually think that they will never act on their emotions.

11. Men also need a sense of security

Why men don't like women asking too much about their careers and money. Just like why men are generally not very enthusiastic about the people they meet on blind dates, unless the other person is very beautiful or has better conditions than themselves. It’s because they think you are not “safe” deep down. All men have a common fear - that a woman will marry him for his money and social status, rather than for him as a person. This is also the reason why most older wealthy men choose to "keep the red flag flying at home and the colorful flags flying outside" - they are determined not to divorce.