Why don't men make that sound when they are sprinting?

Why don't men moan during sex? In fact, men should moan, but most Chinese men are unwilling to do so. Over time, they get used to it and even fail to moan. Of course, whether to moan or not is not the problem, but why one is unwilling to moan is a question worth pondering.

In fact, there are many complex historical and practical reasons behind the phenomenon that Chinese men do not moan during sex. As to whether men in ancient China moaned during sex, there is no clear description in books of all dynasties, including sex knowledge manuals such as "The Yellow Emperor's Classic of Internal Medicine" and "Dong Xuan Zi", and pornographic novels such as "The Sexual Deeds" and "The Golden Lotus". At first I guessed that those books were probably written by men, so they were more interested in describing the various charming states of the women under them and forgot to pay attention to their own affairs.

In fact, the fact that Chinese men don’t moan during sex is fundamentally related to the traditional Chinese understanding and attitude towards sex. Almost since ancient times, we have had serious prejudices and misunderstandings about sex. Sex is considered to be something that cannot be discussed or revealed, and is even considered to be obscene and ugly. Although this erroneous concept has not hindered the reproduction of the Chinese nation in the slightest - in fact, the reproduction is quite good. Currently, it is estimated that there are already 1.5 to 1.6 billion people, excluding those living overseas - but the psychological harm it has caused to people over thousands of years cannot be ignored.

Under the shadow of the banner of "preserve the laws of nature and eliminate human desires", after countless inhumane events, even though Chinese men are still able to pass on their family line physically, they have long been mentally impotent. This is particularly evident in the fact that they don't dare to moan or don't know how to moan in bed. Perhaps in the past five thousand years, Chinese men have not been in such a repressive situation all the time. Perhaps the situation changed a little when the northern nomadic peoples first entered the Central Plains and traditional Chinese culture was greatly enriched. But in comparison, such times are very rare after all, and most of the time, it is a situation where operations can only be carried out silently in the dark.

I have no clear knowledge of these things that happened so far ago. I can only guess what the situation was on the bed back then through my understanding of history. What touched me most were the cruel times not too long ago that I was able to hear and see. Our generation has known from adults since we were very young that there is a type of people called "sluts". A more detailed classification includes those who live together before marriage, those who have too many friends, those who have extramarital affairs, etc. Anyone who does not fulfill the things between men and women in the conventional way is easily referred to as a pair of broken shoes.

At that time, children like me often saw people with problematic lifestyles - mostly pretty women, who were dragged and paraded through the streets by some people, with disheveled hair, pale faces, and a pair of torn shoes hanging around their necks. We who watched were horrified and confused as to why those people would make such a terrible mistake. At the same time, I developed an inexplicable fear of sex. Even when I reached adolescence when my body was restless and I couldn't help but masturbate under the covers, I couldn't help but enjoy it while feeling guilty. Of course, I didn't dare shout loudly. This state later extends to the life of both sexes, and what should have been joyful and lively becomes "like the wind sneaking into the night, moistening things silently."

The sexual sorrows of Chinese men had not seen any significant improvement even before the reform and opening up. It was only in recent years that "suddenly, like a spring breeze, thousands of pear trees blossomed." Most of the current core group of people who have sex are still people like us who have gone through those eras. Therefore, although times have changed, concepts have changed, the environment has become more relaxed and more humane, the shadow left by the special era experienced in childhood and adolescence still lingers on and affects our current thoughts and behaviors. It’s the same old saying: “If you don’t dare to moan in bed, then you won’t be able to moan in bed.” Habits become second nature, no matter whether the habit is voluntary or imposed. It is estimated that our generation will never be able to make a comeback, so we can only place our hopes on those born in the 80s and 90s.

After all, the reason why men don't moan during sex is ultimately due to the traditional cultural ethics and the feudal autocratic social system. Many of the dregs in the 5,000-year-old traditional culture have really harmed the vast majority of Chinese men, suppressed their spirits, and distorted their souls. It should be said that being reserved and introverted is not a nation’s shortcoming, but if one cannot treat human affairs scientifically and blindly suppresses them, then that is a shortcoming. I think that when Chinese men can have sex with women without any scruples, and when Chinese men can regain their due glory, the situation of more women than men in many fields will also change, and the great rejuvenation of this nation may be just around the corner.