When does a woman's prime years begin?

As the saying goes, "Thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger." This is very appropriate when applied to a woman's sexual age. Women's sexual desire peaks when they reach their thirties or forties. At this time, they always hope to relive the intimacy they had during their honeymoon, so that the lovemaking between husband and wife can be repeated again and again. But the reality is not as good as expected. Children, family, career, etc. are all hindering them from reliving their dream. However, recent research by sexologists has brought good news to women. They believe that women's sexual desire will increase again between the ages of 40 and 50, which can allow them to enter a "second honeymoon". In this regard, an expert in sexual medicine at Tsinghua University said that the concept of "second honeymoon" does exist, but women should not have too high expectations of it and should look at it more rationally.

Honeymoon is mainly psychological.

"Women actually have the strongest sexual desire around the age of 35," the expert said. "But women at this age are either busy with their careers or with having children. They often don't have enough time and energy to enjoy 'married life' with their husbands."

"Around age 50, women's living conditions change." For example, family burdens are reduced, children can basically be independent, and parents no longer have to worry about them; after years of getting along, the couple's relationship becomes more harmonious and loving; their careers have entered a stable period... "Therefore, compared to when they were in their thirties or forties, women at this stage are more able to enjoy sex. Hence, there is the term 'second honeymoon.'" Some people also believe that the key to women's sexual desire is the male hormone testosterone, and that women aged 40-50 have higher testosterone levels, so their sexual desire is stronger. Is this statement true? Yang Dazhong said that this is not the main factor. "The main reason is psychological."

A famous women's magazine once published an article stating that a single increase in testosterone levels does not bring women a strong sexual desire, and not every woman aged 40-50 will experience an increase in testosterone levels.

Don’t expect too much from your “second honeymoon”

"However, women should not expect too much from a 'second honeymoon', after all, it is much worse than a real honeymoon," Yang Dazhong reminded, "because the sexual ability of both spouses has declined at this time, especially for men."

It is reported that men's sexual desire and sexual ability will gradually decline after the age of 30, and the decline will be more obvious when they are 40-50 years old; women will also experience sexual organ dysfunction, insufficient vaginal secretions leading to vaginal dryness and other phenomena. These will affect the quality of sex life.

Mutual understanding is key

So, how to welcome and face the "second honeymoon"? Yang Dazhong said that the most important thing is the mutual understanding between husband and wife. The wife should understand her husband and realize that he is no longer as strong and powerful as he was when he was young. "If you always complain about your husband, it will increase his psychological burden." At the same time, the husband should understand his wife and not blame her for being too impatient. After all, everyone wants to enjoy a happy sex life.

"On the basis of mutual understanding, some methods can be used to improve the quality of sex life." For example, anti-ED drugs, dietary supplements, exercise, etc. In addition, it is also very important to adjust the sexual lifestyle. The following methods are for reference:

First, men can eat some honey and pumpkin seeds to improve their sexual ability; both parties can eat more chocolate to enhance sexual pleasure.

Second, women can use vaginal lubricants to reduce friction pain during sexual intercourse.

Third, both parties should kiss and caress each other sufficiently before sexual intercourse to lay the foundation for achieving orgasm.

A woman's sexual desire is related to her age. Youth is not necessarily passionate and unrestrained, but sex life becomes dull after the age of 60? Relevant experts have collected some information and conducted research on this topic from 15 to 30 years old and from 30 to over 60 years old.

Before 15: Strange and shy

The girl's attitude towards sex is strangely shy. She may be open in words, but she hides her girlish feelings.

She may say something flirtatious to her boyfriend just because she wants him to be gentler; she is waiting for true love and rarely has promiscuous sex.

15 to 20 years old: Start exploring

Begin to explore sexuality and have high demands on your appearance. Many people start their first diet at this time. Although they gradually exude feminine charm and easily make men infatuated, they emphasize passion and believe that there is no sexual pleasure without love. I would rather maintain a very friendly relationship with my boyfriend than give away my virginity casually.

20 to 30 years old: Running around

This is the golden period for women to find a partner, and it is also the stage in their lives when they have the most friends of the opposite sex. Unfortunately, this was not a good period for sex life. It was the time when I was struggling in my career. After work, I escaped back home and no longer had the energy to enjoy the pleasure of the boudoir.

30 to 40 years old: Golden period

It is the golden time for women in sex. They have more experience, new and special interests; they are particularly aware of the passage of time and cherish every happy moment; they have stronger self-confidence.

40 to 50 years old: extremes

This is a rather complex age group, with some women beginning to lose interest in sex at this time, and these are generally older couples who have been married for many years and have lived together until old age. As for the women who are still free, they no longer force any commitment from men. They put happiness first. With rich experience, they can better grasp the pleasure that sex can bring.

50 to 60 years old: Occasional masterpieces

Many people think that at this time, women's sexual needs have calmed down. In fact, some of them have requirements for this. The frequency of sexual relations will be different from before, and they will enjoy it slowly.

Over 60: Extraordinary Sensibility

This group of elders in society can still be beautiful and attractive. Many people say that women at this age can show extraordinary sensibility.