6 signs to know if your wife is cheating

The phrase "red apricot blossoms outside the wall" comes from a poem called "Not Worth Visiting the Small Garden" by Ye Shaoweng, a scholar in the Song Dynasty: "The garden is full of spring colors and cannot be contained. A red apricot blossom grows outside the wall." This line of poetry was originally used to describe the rich spring colors and the abundance of interest. Later it referred to the red apricot blossoms growing outside the wall, describing a wife having an affair. But in today's society, "cheating" is used to describe the dirty act of a woman betraying her husband! Men's infidelity will be exposed in many details in life, and "cheating" will also have the following six most obvious changes:

Change 1: Outdoor activities have increased significantly, and people always find different reasons.

A wife who was originally enthusiastic about housework suddenly becomes neglectful of housework, often goes out in a hurry, and says that she will not come home for dinner tonight. It is strange, just like two sworn enemies who have always been enemies suddenly become close. These two people either have ulterior motives or are harboring murderous intentions. The change in habits reveals the tail.

This is actually one of the most important details in changing habits. Women's strategies are often very superficial. You usually can't marry a woman who is as scheming and strategic as a Bond girl. So once a wife who doesn't like social activities very much starts to go to various occasions, jogging in the morning, or partying in bars, it cannot be said that his wife's personality has changed from introverted to extroverted, but the reason is attributed to excuses.

If a woman who always says she doesn't like eating oranges peels an orange in front of you one day, it means she has become jealous and you are not far from being cuckolded.

Change 2: Feeling worried, absent-minded, mood becoming erratic, and often getting angry for no reason.

A wife who has cheated on her husband and found a new love, no matter how she disguises herself or creates illusions to confuse your judgment, it is not difficult to find clues of her cheating as long as you observe carefully, because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody, more picky and ruthless towards you than before. No matter how good you are to her as a husband, she will always find fault with you and often get angry at you for no reason, and this anger can easily hurt innocent children.

Every time when I talk to my husband, I always say, "Look, we were often pursued by others back then. If you had been a step later, I might have married that man. You are so lucky." However, if you ask the wife who has had an affair what she used to say to her husband, she will become very impatient, just like Daji possessed by a fox spirit.

Only when women reach menopause will they become forgetful. Today they forget to buy milk powder for their baby, and tomorrow they will just put the clothes to be washed in the washing machine and leave it alone. When they are idle they will stare blankly with dull eyes and a dazed look, looking as if they have a lot on their mind. However, they will not take the initiative to tell their men what is wrong, but will ponder over it silently.

At this time, when the man asks her if she is feeling uncomfortable or sick, she will not pretend that she doesn't know he is calling her or talking to her, but turns her head, her expression changes, and she always smiles at her man and says: Honey, I'm fine, you go to sleep first, okay.

Change three: Over a period of time, she would often inquire about her husband's schedule, seemingly caring but actually arranging dates for him.

This is easy to understand. A wife who used to come home on time suddenly comes home very late or leaves home too early. She also likes to ask about her husband's schedule, when he is on business trips, working overtime, and coming home. This seems to be caring about her husband's outings, worrying that he might have an accident, and worrying about him. In fact, sometimes this is just because she is afraid that her man will discover her secret and is prepared.

Not only that, some couples can even forget their dating birthdays and wedding anniversaries when they were young. The concept of time that was originally clearly remembered in their minds suddenly begins to shrink, which means that the wife's emotional psychology is in trouble.

Change 4: Mobile phone spending has skyrocketed over a period of time and will maintain a certain growth rate every month.

Mobile phones have become the most commonly used communication tool for people, but they are also the best communication platform for people having affairs today. No matter whether they are men or women, after they have an affair, they can conceal some of their superficial behaviors, but they cannot help but use their mobile phones to send text messages or make phone calls to express their true feelings. This is especially true when a woman has an affair.

Therefore, the phone calls from people who have affairs often reflect abnormalities, just like Yan Shouyi in a movie called "Cell Phone" who kept telling lies. Women are no exception. When they lie, they make sure their faces don't turn red, their necks don't get thick, and they don't gasp for breath. They act as if nothing happened. Of course, this is not to ask men to make groundless suspicions about their lovers, but to ask men to discover the situation in time and try to save the situation in every possible way.

Change 5: Consumption has increased significantly, especially the proportion of money spent on buying clothing and cosmetics.

"Clothes make the man, saddles make the horse." Women are born to love beauty, and unfaithful women pay more attention to their image. When they meet other men they like in marriage, they will pay more attention to their appearance. Even though they are middle-aged women, they still have to dress themselves up as girls in their twenties!

After a woman has an affair, her spending will increase significantly, with most of the money being spent on purchasing a series of private cosmetics to ensure her youthfulness and invincibility and to attract men. Sometimes they will deliberately express their true feelings to the man they like. For example, men will spend money to support their mistresses, and the same is true for women. So she saved her own money even more secretly, hiding her extra income from her husband to meet her needs.

Change 6: The frequency of sexual intercourse decreases and the quality declines, which obviously shows that she is just being perfunctory to her husband.

Sexual life is often the touchstone for testing the quality of a couple's relationship. A wife who is in the process of cheating or has already cheated will no longer have the usual feeling of passion and warmth during sex.

When couples do their weekly homework, men will find that their wives' attitude towards sex has become nominal, just a simple routine. In the past, she would joke with him after the act, saying sweet words like how great his body is, but now she moans like a dying person, completely losing the real emotional connotation. In the past, she would cooperate with you in changing different sex positions, but now she lets you vent like a dead body.

One particularly obvious reaction is that she used to complain that the time and frequency of having sex with you were too short, but now she feels that time is too slow and she can't wait to finish her homework. When you ask her what's going on and why there is such a big change, she will be perfunctory and shirk responsibility.