Virginity is precious. Who will suffer if a man and a woman live together?

Generally speaking, it is men who first propose the request for cohabitation. When men ask for cohabitation, many women are completely at a loss or choose to compromise their own wishes to comply. So, when men live together, is it for love or for sex? Let's discuss this today.

Reason 1: Cohabitation is to meet physiological needs

It is usually men who ask for cohabitation, and it is also men who help you move after you agree. It seems that a man's request for cohabitation is premeditated. After that, the previous secretive sex life turned into regular sex, and my boyfriend changed the way he addressed me among his friends from girlfriend to wife. It is said that men are animals who think with their lower body, and men's cohabitation requirements make people feel that they just want to have sex.

Faced with the fact that cohabitation seems to have no end in sight, many female friends feel resentful. They want to reject men's requests for cohabitation, but are afraid of being ruthlessly abandoned by men. What’s even more distressing is that every month I have to use the test strips to test myself with trepidation, begging myself not to get pregnant…

Women hope to end their cohabitation life as soon as possible and enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible, but men postpone the wedding date indefinitely, which seems to be a shirking of responsibility. Faced with an indefinite engagement, women still cannot feel at ease.

Reason 2: Living together is for love

When we suspect that men propose living together for the purpose of having sex, many men get furious. They clearly live together for love, so how can they say so absolutely that they do it for sex? We cannot deny that for some men, living together is indeed for love. Since the purpose of cohabitation is not to have this relatively safe double bed, then why can't we get married? The reason is very simple. Would a man who lives together just for sex be so stupid as to spend his whole life waiting by your side?

Living together brings deeper familiarity and love, making cohabitation a prelude to marriage. This is the best cohabitation model known on the Internet. Living together can provide a platform for you to better see each other's strengths and weaknesses, become familiar with each other's family, education, living habits, and even sexual positions. Only in this way, when two people walk hand in hand into marriage, they will not feel that everything is too presumptuous.

No one can reject love nowadays, but most people tend to be secretive and self-restrained when it comes to marriage. Many young people would rather live together than talk about marriage, under the pretext that this can save them a lot of trouble. So, someone declared that fear of marriage is prevalent on the streets this year.

After living together for quite a long time, some people have tasted the sweetness. They discovered that marriage was not as terrible as they had originally imagined. Moreover, they truly love each other, so, wouldn't adding a legal contract make their love more stable? Perhaps these people never dreamed that living together would become a good remedy to cure their fear of marriage. Cohabitation innovates marriage.

A rational view of cohabitation

Whether men are willing to admit it or not, sex can almost be a major factor in their request to live together. For this group of men, they do not want to step into the "besieged city" of marriage, but are willing to enjoy the happiness that should only be enjoyed between husband and wife.

Some of them are too young to think about getting married; some just want to be "happy bachelors" or "single nobles" and are unwilling to get married; some want to get married but are afraid of choosing the wrong partner and ruining their life, so they try marriage first; some cannot get married for other reasons and live together first.

In short, no matter what the reason, they proposed to live together with their girlfriends without a marriage certificate. After being approved, there were two more "unlicensed marriages" in the world.

In addition, in most relationships, men are usually in the active position. It was the man who invited you to the movies first, it was the man who proposed to you, and then it was the man who took off your clothes and carried you to bed...

So, it is not surprising that most of those who propose cohabitation are men. They usually don't consider the various difficulties they may encounter in the future like women do. For them, a leisurely sexual climax can almost overcome everything! What's more, cohabitation means freedom and no commitment; cohabitation means that men can easily enjoy the essence and sweetness of marriage in advance without buying a house or supporting a family.

Of course there are men in life who ask for cohabitation for love, but they are a minority after all. Most of them do it for sex. Therefore, when a man proposes to live together, female friends must open their eyes and look at cohabitation rationally, and never ruin their lifelong happiness because of a momentary confusion.