Different sexual interests in bed

1. “It’s very attractive for a man to talk dirty in bed”

Some people think this is very "manly" and "interesting", but they don't know that most women hate it. It’s just that in a sexual environment, they cannot object immediately, but they feel vaguely unhappy in their hearts. Over time, this little bit of unhappiness becomes the most terrifying hidden danger.

Sex experts tell us: Only a small number of women like to be verbally abused in bed. Most women want men to be "powerful", "strong and reliable", "gentle and skillful" and "know when to stop" in bed.

2. “My private part is the sexiest part of my body”

Many men consider a strong penis to be one of their most boastful assets. For a man, the performance of his penis in bed has become a barometer of his physical health and the level of psychological stress. So, in the eyes of women, is the sexiest part of a man his penis?

In a survey titled "Which part of a man's body do you think is the sexiest?", the penis unexpectedly failed to make the list. Among the women surveyed, no one chose it; 26% of women chose "firm breasts" because this part "has a classic beauty", "seems to smell the scent of hormones immediately", and "makes people feel warm and protected"...

3. “The more muscular I am, the more my sexual partner will like it.”

Many men blindly pursue a good figure, but not for health. In their imagination, the more muscular they are, the better they can please their partners in bed. However, research has shown that muscular men are not the best sexual partners chosen by most women. Having well-developed muscles is more about satisfying men's own vanity.

In fact, the most ideal lover's body shape for women is: gentle eyes, slender limbs, soft and elastic skin, and biceps and pectoralis major muscles should not be overdeveloped. Some women say that muscular men make them associate them with sexual violence and rough sexual techniques.

4. “Try to prolong the sex time so that I appear diligent”

There was a civil aviation pilot who would try to prolong his sex time as much as possible after each flight. The foreplay and afterplay would last up to 2-3 hours, and the time spent on the main action would not be less than an hour. To others, this seemed to be his wife's happiness, but the woman complained that the long period of sex made her physically exhausted, but the husband was very dissatisfied because he had learned that women's orgasm comes slower than men's, so the longer the sex time, the easier it is for women to orgasm, so he tried his best to prolong the sex time every time.

The problem lies in the public's misunderstanding of the process of achieving orgasm. Women do not achieve orgasm later than men, but are more passive than men. If you are an experienced sex worker, it will only take a few minutes to find a woman's G-spot, A-spot and U-spot and quickly bring her to orgasm.

5. "My favorite sex position is her favorite"

Due to the differences in the body structures of men and women, their preferences for body positions are also different. Although sex textbooks list dozens of sexual positions, in real life, the most common ones are "missionary (woman on bottom, man on top)", "woman on top, man on bottom", "rear entry" and "side entry".

However, most women do not like the "doggy style" because this animal-like posture makes them feel ashamed as if they were being raped, and it is not easy for them to orgasm. Doing it occasionally may feel fresh and exciting, but they will become disgusted if it happens too often.

Their favorite positions are mostly "woman on top" - because this gives them a sense of conquest of men, and "side entry" - they feel safe, and it feels good to be hugged from the side.