Seven major differences between men and women in their married life

Having a candlelight dinner, going on a sweet date, giving a thoughtful gift, these are all necessary procedures in the love course. For men and women in love, the most important thing may be to have a 100% good sex! However, even if you have been in love for a long time, can you really achieve a perfect understanding between you and him?

Take a look at this seven-night-week sexual conversation between a man and a woman.

Night 1: What do you do and say before the show starts?

Women: What women value most is foreplay. Kissing is the catalyst that makes lovers infatuated. Some people even call kissing the most gentle lovemaking. Women are made of water and are emotional. We want to know that we are loved, so we most hope to hear men say some romantic words to us, such as "You are so beautiful!", "I will always love you...", etc. This is not difficult, right?

Men: As men, of course we will use all kinds of sweet words to seduce the other party, but we generally like to speak with actions. When we hear the moans of our lover in bed, we will have an indescribable sense of conquest and satisfaction.

Woman: Sometimes, playing some small games is also very interesting. We hope to experience the different feelings brought by different scenes, rather than doing it just for the sake of doing it.

Men: Actually, men have double standards for the women they like. It would be best if she is a perfect lady outside, but bold and unrestrained in bed, just for me...

Comment: Romance + passion are men's weapons, charm + fickleness are women's temptations.

Collision degree: 25%.

Night 2: Honey, are you satisfied?

Woman: This is actually a question of understanding orgasm. Of course women also desire orgasm, but it does not just come from simple sex. The sweet words from her lover, the gentle caresses and the romantic environment will make a woman feel the arrival of climax without realizing it. However, there are still quite a lot of women who don’t care much about whether they have reached orgasm, but women do care a lot about whether their partners have reached orgasm. In order not to hurt their partners’ self-esteem and to take care of their partners’ feelings, they will even fake an orgasm. It seems that women are really considerate.

Men: Whether or not a woman he likes can reach orgasm is something that almost all men care about. As long as a man has a desire to conquer, after having sex

"You are awesome" - this gives you a greater sense of accomplishment than anything else! Some people say that many men care about whether a woman has an orgasm or not, in order to prove how capable they are. This may be a bit one-sided, but who doesn't want to be a powerhouse in bed?

Comment: Although both women attach importance to orgasm, women value men because of love, while men value their own feelings more.

Collision: 40.

Night 3: Which is more acceptable: sex without love or love without sex?

Woman: In a woman's dictionary, nothing is more important than love. Good sex makes love even better, otherwise it would be boring to put the cart before the horse. Sex and love have always been closely connected. Women make love because of love!

Men: It seems that people have a misunderstanding that men can have sex with someone they don’t love, but this is actually not true. In the eyes of men, although sex is an important bond to maintain a relationship between partners, it is not the only one.

Comment: Between sex and love, which is more important, only lovers themselves know best.

Collision: 10%

Night 4: Only Love Strangers

Women: "One-night stand" is an eternal topic, but don't believe that women's attitudes have become so open that they treat it as commonplace. Although women now pursue sex as they please, there are still only a few who are willing to sleep with strangers behind their boyfriends' backs.

Men: Men often commit the sin of having a one-night stand. What did Jia Mu in Dream of the Red Chamber say? Which man doesn't cheat? Of course, most men are loyal to their partners, but when temptation comes, how many men can really remain calm like Liu Xiahui?

Comment: Women like sex that makes them feel safe, while men like sex that makes them feel fresh.

Collision: 50%

Night 5: How to view physical and emotional infidelity

Women: An affair is an affair. As long as it is cheating, it cannot be forgiven! If there is a first time, there will be a second time. What is love? Of course, it is based on mutual loyalty. Only then can we hold hands and grow old together!

Men: Speaking of cheating, it's really hard to describe... As a creature with strong male hormones, there will always be happy moments of fantasizing about being hugged by women on both sides, right? Men are captives of beauty, isn't the Trojan Horse the best example? Besides, this is just a casual thought. Women should also examine themselves to see if they don't care enough about their boyfriends/husbands, so that he cheats on them?

Woman: Who should reflect on themselves, the man or the woman? Why do they always have double standards? The most terrifying thing is mental infidelity, which proves that his heart is no longer with you. What would you do if I cheated on you?

Man: How can that be? If we have to say what the difference is between men and women on this point, it is that men care most about physical betrayal.

Comment: Women can't accept emotional infidelity the most, while men can't accept physical infidelity the most.

Collision: 70.

Night 6: Which is more important, happiness or safety?

Woman: This is a very serious topic. Although we are all willing to trust our partners, we should still wear a condom just in case. Not only is it fearful of an unexpected pregnancy, physical health is more important!

Men: Men are born with adventurous and dangerous elements in their blood, and the question of whether to wear or not still has a significant impact! We men don’t like to wear condoms, this is an indisputable fact. If you women are asked to take a shower without taking off your clothes, would you feel comfortable? The principle is the same! However, for safety considerations and also for your responsibility, you should wear it reluctantly... Let me ask you quietly, when will the AIDS vaccine be officially produced?

Comment: Life is precious, but risk taking is even more precious. If it is for health reasons, both can be thrown away.

Collision: 5%

Night 7: Fancy party? Or conservative party?

Woman: Are there still people who make love in the same way day after day? That’s prehistoric creatures... As long as conditions permit, of course I will try different ways of making love. Women pay the most attention to creating the atmosphere. A cute prop or a subtle change can give us unexpected surprises.

Men: We are very exploratory in this regard, but men should be more daring! We have always been curious about sex. We will not only try different positions, but also enjoy sex toys. Whether it's in the room or the kitchen, outdoors or in the car, as long as the mood strikes, why not do it?

Comment: Women can never say NO to romance, but men are always brave enough to explore SEX.