Who should clean up the mess after lovemaking?

This is indeed a common problem. For example, if you want to turn off the lights, who should go? If no one goes, should the lights stay on? Also, if one party is thirsty and doesn't want to get water, should the other party help him/her get it? After making love, women often like to wash up, should men also do it?

Women complain that men only want to sleep after sex

Women often complain that men fall asleep right after sex. In fact, men don't want to sleep either, but their bodies are different from women's, so men are more likely to fall asleep after making love. Women, on the other hand, often want men to lie down and talk to them, or even just sit there quietly, with them resting their heads on them, leaning on them, while they stroke their firm chests and tease their hard stubble. But most men cannot meet this requirement of women.

Why men sleep better after sex

As for why men are more likely to fall asleep after sex, some scientists explain that men release a mixture of brain chemicals during ejaculation, including adrenaline, serotonin, oxytocin, antidiuretic hormone, nitric oxide and prolactin. The increase in prolactin is related to sleep - when people are sleeping, the level of prolactin is higher than when they are awake (animals will also fall asleep quickly after being injected with this hormone), so men can fall asleep more easily after passion.

Please understand men's sleep after sex

It's not just fatigue. Studies have shown that after having sex, men actually feel relaxed. Their "fear and tension" are gone, and they can more easily fall into a relaxing sleep.

So, please understand men's sleep after sex.

Data Proof

A survey shows that in the UK, 48% of 10,000 men will fall asleep immediately after sex. In China, this figure is as high as 75%. So, no matter how much women complain, men will still sleep with them.

Moreover, even if men don't sleep, they don't necessarily like to clean up the mess. I have a friend who likes to smoke after making love. At this time, I am afraid that it will make women more depressed than sleeping soundly.

The lingering scene is of commemorative significance

Messy sheets, overturned cups, pillows everywhere, clothes falling off, condoms thrown on the floor, tissues everywhere on the bed and under the bed... Does this scene look like a crime scene?

Indeed, the scene of sex has many similarities with the scene of crime, so some people like to preserve the scene of sex, thinking it is a kind of memory, or some people like to collect souvenirs of the scene of sex, just like the famous actress Helen Sinclair said in the movie "Bullets Over Broadway", "Every performance is a birth, and every closing is a death!" For these people, the scene left after each sex is of commemorative significance, because they only happen once.

The most unique one

A unique time, place, and time with this person.

However, no matter what, you still have to clean up in the end, but is it the men or the women who do it? Do they clean up immediately after they are done, or do they clean up the next day after they wake up? These all reflect the great differences in personality and habits between men and women.

A man who takes the initiative to clean up the mess is worthy of love

If a man takes the initiative to clean up the mess after passionate sex, it means that he really loves you and cares about you. At least, that's the case right now. It is worth giving your body to a man like this. However, we can only be tolerant and understand men who don't clean up the mess.