7 situations where women want to cheat

Deep in a woman's consciousness, she will have more or less unrealistic fantasies about sex. Under normal circumstances, men and women will not take risks easily, but if external and internal conditions permit, the probability of such a thing happening will greatly increase.

Nine out of ten men are playboys. In fact, the same is true for women, but they are more reserved. As far as the nature of men and women's romantic encounters, their views on money, power, and sex are basically the same. The only difference is a matter of opportunity and courage. Being unfaithful does not necessarily mean taking action. After all, there are not many people who are unfaithful. But we are facing such an era after all...

1. Encountering an old lover

It is better to laugh than to cry, and the old is better than the new. When a married woman suddenly meets her ex-lover, with whom she once loved deeply but eventually broke up, in an unexpected place, it is just like a revolutionary being tortured by the enemy. Whether she becomes Fu Zhigao or Jiang Jie depends entirely on her personal determination.

The "new" here refers to marriage in reality. Reality is real and reveals its imperfections, so people become dissatisfied, nostalgic, and even fantasize about how that incomplete emotional journey could have unfolded perfectly and in depth - such a psychological state is undoubtedly the best soil for the flower of romantic encounter to bloom. When the old lover comes, conflicts also arise.

Critical conditions: (1) The husband has just beaten up the married woman. (2) The old lovers have grown up and are no longer forgetful of their past love. (3) The two had dinner together and drank some wine.

2. The bar is a dangerous place

For men, the bar is a filter or a disguise that can make a rough man look elegant; for women, the bar becomes a place where marginal emotions flourish and is undoubtedly a high-incidence area for romantic encounters. From a woman's perspective, men in the bar often perform the following classic show: shaking a half-glass of wine and walking from one bar to another with a smile on their faces.

They generally do not sit down easily unless the prey is already in their grasp. Even when talking to ladies who were not in the selection range, he was absolutely patient and sincere. There was a hint of smile on his lips, his voice was slightly magnetic, and his eyes were bright and focused - he was longing for a real romantic encounter. Even though women are fully aware of this kind of performance, they still easily fall into it. Women in bars don’t expect everlasting love; they are very emotional. There is no need for any reason for such an affair to unfold.

Critical conditions: (1) This man has a Chow Yun-fat smile. (2) Or Takakura-style indifference. (3) Or Ge You-style humor.

3. Attractive middle-aged men

An attractive middle-aged man is a train that travels everywhere, and all women who want to travel far want to take it. Young men are green apples, middle-aged men are red apples. Some hardware is unique to middle-aged men: a certain reputation and social status; the ability to judge the situation calmly and rationally; and a detailed understanding of female psychology.

All of these make women identify middle-aged men as their top romantic targets. Especially attractive middle-aged men. Of course, this type of affair is more complicated than other types. Women may be passionate, but men are half sea and half fire. It is almost certain that conspiracy and ignorance are often combined in these emotional games. The final injured person must be the woman, and the final person holding the knife must be the middle-aged man with an innocent face. I understand women who are having affairs, you must be careful!

Critical conditions: (1) The girl lost her father’s love when she was young. (2) Under 28 years of age. (3) The man is either eloquent or silent. (4) It is also best to claim that your current marital status is not satisfactory.

4. Male Boss, Male Boss

A romantic relationship between a female subordinate and a male superior is also a type of affair. What is certain is that this kind of affair has nothing to do with power, although the deterrent effect of power is sometimes similar to that of the missiles of the United States and NATO; aggressive, arrogant and unreasonable, but after all, an affair in the office has nothing to do with sexual harassment.

In fact, the only criterion for judging whether this special relationship between superiors and subordinates is an affair or sexual harassment is that it is sexual harassment only when a woman yells, "You're less Clinton to me," otherwise it is an affair. Of course, not all male bosses are likely to become the target of a romantic encounter for their female subordinates. This has nothing to do with whether the male boss is married or not, but is closely related to his personal charm.

Critical conditions: (1) The male supervisor has just been transferred in. (2) Shave your chin until it is as blue as a stone every day. (3) Generally serious and somewhat mysterious. (4) However, he would show concern for women on appropriate occasions.

5. Is the husband indifferent or unfaithful?

Such a husband greatly increases the probability of his wife having an affair. There is some revenge, some sadness, and some longing. A phone call, a party, a chance encounter. It doesn’t really matter what means or methods are used. What matters is that the wife should do something at this time.

The other person doesn’t have to be very charming but he must be understanding; he doesn’t have to be successful in his career but he must know how to care for others; he doesn’t have to please women but he must be loyal in love. At this time, a woman looking for a romantic encounter is actually looking for ideal love or a lover. Men who are involved in an affair are under great pressure; is this emotion too heavy?

Critical conditions: (1) The woman loves her husband deeply. (2) The husband plays with emotions. (3) A considerate and devoted man appears.

6. Love in a foreign country

In fact, this refers to a romantic encounter that may occur in a specific time and space. For example, the TV series "100 Broadway", and Qi Shiying and Master Jin in the play. A married man and woman (the lover is not each other) live under the same roof in a foreign country for three years. How can it be natural for an affair not to happen? Men may be more lonely physically than psychologically, but the opposite is true for women.

The affair took place in public, and Qi Shiying's feminine weakness was firmly grasped by the painter Master Jin. Therefore, it is best for women who go abroad to live alone. But is it okay to live alone?

Critical conditions: (1) There is a gathering of international students. (2) The time is Mid-Autumn Festival, Lantern Festival or Valentine’s Day. (3) Their respective lovers are not around.

7. Bad Boy Cool Boy Alternative Boy

Young girls like this kind of boy, and young women and even middle-aged women may also like him. It is said that this is the era of the new bad man. The new bad man will take some responsibility when he is willing to do so, and will never put himself in a difficult position when he is unwilling to do so.

Women feel that such men are kind, real and not hypocritical, and they may have a desire to get close to them. Cool guys are the best candidates for a one-night stand for women - but they are only suitable for one night. After a long time, coolness will become a paper tiger.

Alternative men are those who play with art and marginal feelings. He may have braids or be bald, may have a job or be unemployed, may be responsible or irresponsible - in this respect, an alternative boy is no different from a bad boy. Women have affairs with these unique guys in search of a certain feeling or mood, but the ending is usually just a taste.

Critical conditions: (1) The woman who is likely to get involved has some sense of adventure. (2) May be unmarried. (3) They may be married but their married life is dull.