4 dangerous moments for single men and single women

A Western philosopher once said: Those who live alone are either wild beasts or gods. Then the "lonely man and single woman" who temporarily live in seclusion will have some of the weirdness of gods and the frenzy of wild beasts in their hearts. In four dangerous situations, they are most likely to expose their fragile emotions, and are also most likely to indulge themselves and make mistakes.

(1) Dusk.

It was a poetic moment. The setting sun, the weary birds returning to their nests, the curling smoke from the countryside and the bright lights in the city, each attract a different kind of wandering soul. Single people fear this kind of time the most. All the hard work subsides, all the troubles retreat, and all that is left is a desolate self. They cannot give themselves a clear explanation.

Where to go? Who to find? What to do? ... The more graceful and elegant the nightlife outside is, the more lonely and neglected they feel.

A classmate of mine who had an unhappy marriage once told me with red eyes: I get scared when it gets dark. Sad and panicked, unable to find a home... "At this time, if you get excited, you might do something out of the ordinary.

(2) Midnight.

Everything is asleep, all is quiet, and only one's soul is awake in the world. Go to sleep, but it's hard to fall asleep. You often "can't sleep but still hug the pillow" or "cry for others until dawn". Have fun, you can relax for a moment. Alcohol can numb the body but it cannot numb the soul.

It's dark, and in the vast universe, you are the only one, feeling alone the pain of being imprisoned, exiled, without a soulmate and without a future.

Zheng Banqiao's motto "It's a rare opportunity to be confused" once again confirms the feeling of being "alone, with only one's shadow for company". At this time, you must not panic.

(3) Before the festival.

Playboy Xu Zhimo was very good at dealing with beautiful women. When he and Lu Xiaoman were in a private relationship, he wrote a letter to comfort her, saying that the most difficult thing for lovers to go through is the traditional festivals, and at this time, they have to separate and have to hide their identities and feelings in the shadows.

Just like Tchaikovsky's "Pathetique Symphony", the more gorgeous the phrases in the front are, the sadder the feeling in the back is. It is just like the lament in Zhu Ziqing's prose: "The excitement belongs to them, and I have nothing." At times like this, it is easy for something to go wrong!

(4) After drinking.

I can fully understand why the ancients emphasized "being cautious when alone". In other words, gentlemen and villains are all made of flesh and blood. When external conditions are relaxed - especially when the moral environment is ambiguous, human beings' innate biological nature begins to stir, and may even break through various humanistic constraints and become uncontrollable.

It is often said that "liquor makes people's faces red, and gold moves people's hearts." Alcohol is the culprit of "taking over people's hearts" because it anesthetizes the mind, causes excessive behavior, and adds to the worries. No one can guarantee that they will always have the "aristocratic demeanor" after drinking.

In fact, there is no need for the so-called "dusk, midnight, before the festival, and after drinking". As long as you find a decent excuse, emotional impulses may occur at any time. You just have to be responsible for yourself and be a little more careful at these critical moments.