You can't afford to do this during puberty.

The initiators of adolescent sexual behavior are mostly males, but the direct victims are females. Since this behavior is carried out voluntarily by both men and women, each has certain psychological motivations. In order to safeguard the interests of women and promote the harmony of marriage and the civilized development of society, this article only analyzes the psychological motivations of adolescent sexual behavior in women and the serious consequences of adolescent sexual behavior on women, in order to guide women to love rationally during the process of falling in love and get out of this love misunderstanding as soon as possible.

Can you afford adolescent sexual behavior?

According to the analysis of a large amount of survey data in recent years, women have many extreme concepts and ideas regarding the psychological motivations of adolescent sexual behavior. The author summarizes it as the following misunderstandings from the perspective of sexual psychology and sexual sociology:

1. Pursuing the so-called "new" way of love. In the 1990s, Chinese society has entered a high-level, fast-paced, and colorful period. Lifestyles are changing, and ways of love are also changing.

Some young people mistakenly believe that the way to fall in love in the 1990s was to have sex at every opportunity. Some young women said: "Conventional love is incomplete. Real love should be broad-minded. Since I love him, I can give him everything." "Love should give freedom to the loved one, why wait until marriage?" "It's the 1990s, being affectionate is meaningless, I want to be ahead of history", etc. Driven by the desire to pursue new trends, they quickly go from first love to passionate love, and from marginal sex to adultery.

To rise to the core sexual behavior. The infatuated hugs, kisses and caresses aroused the strong impulse of love.heima.com sexual physiological instinct, which made it difficult for reason to resist. A survey found that 44.67% of women had multiple sexual relations within six months, of which 50.33% were willing and 80.33% believed it was a personal matter. According to my country's sexual ethics standards, the most intimate forms of sexual behavior between men and women during a relationship can only be kissing, cuddling, and caressing. Sexual intercourse can only occur under the condition that the marriage relationship is protected by law. Doing whatever "trendy" things you want is a sign of a lack of responsibility.

2. Advocate for various sexual freedom concepts

In recent years, with the influx of Western cultural thoughts and the occasional spread of sexual culture in our country, the traditional sexual morality with deep cultural heritage has been impacted. Some young people blindly worship various Western concepts of sexual freedom, and have a strong desire to break through the so-called traditional sexual morality. Some young women said: "We are facing great waves from all directions, and even rational women will feel confused -" The music box of morality has soothed the contradictory and painful souls and bodies of some young people today. Their sexual concepts have been equated with primitive instinctive needs. Therefore, some young women believe that “since I am mature, satisfying my desires is a physiological need.” Some say, “As long as I am happy in love, it’s fine.” Others say, “Why worry about pregnancy? Sex is not a sin,” and “A woman is not a complete woman if she has not had an abortion.” In the survey, 32.67% of women believed that “chastity is not very important,” and 19.7% did not care at all after having sex and said, “That’s just how it is,” and so on. Once the concept changes, the behavior changes accordingly. When their love is still at the stage where they don't know how to steer the boat of life rationally, they are burned by desire and engage in sexual behavior that should not have happened too early. Some have sex with their boyfriends periodically, and some, although they have a premonition that the two will not eventually get married, still maintain that special relationship as before. Distorted sexual concepts lead to distorted sexual behaviors that are out of control, resulting in "irresponsible consequences."