7 signs that a woman is about to change her mind

1. In bed

Status-She used to have a great curiosity about sex, but now she is suddenly as cold as a dead fish. Always using various ways to resist your closeness. "Are you annoying?" "Okay, next time?" "Please, I don't want to, I don't want to, I really don't want to!" They even think it is necessary for one of them to sleep in the guest room.

What's wrong - living together in separate beds and making appointments for sex, isn't that the trend nowadays? But the biggest difference between men and women is that men can easily separate sex and love. He may not like you, but he will not refuse to have sex with you. Women cannot do this. They need a harmonious unity of sex and love. If they don’t love each other, they will have little interest in having sex.

You should - apart from her menstrual period and physical discomfort, her refusal is sometimes a form of resistance. There is no need to force her into sex for a one-time pleasure; you need to first examine what it is about you that disgusts her.

2. In front of friends

Status - You know clearly that what men need most is face, but you start to ridicule various aspects of you without considering your feelings. It's a small matter for her to leave you aside, and she may even say to her friends in front of you: "I wish this girl in my family could be like your boyfriend."

What's wrong - usually when a relationship reaches the sweet stage, she will only treat you as her only one, making herself a little satellite, revolving around you all the time. You must have also experienced a period when she was very clingy, so a girl who has no signs of breaking up will never compare you with others, or even compare your shortcomings with other people's strengths. She would only do this if she doesn't take you seriously.

You should - aren't you comparing yourself with other men? Just compare yourself with them and see what she values ​​more. If all she enjoys talking about are superficial things, it's better not to have such a girlfriend.

3. In her blog

Status - Specially write about some ambiguous plots in relationships with men, but obviously they are not happening to you. Or she may recall some good times she had with her ex-boyfriend to arouse your curiosity, and then take the opportunity to have an argument with you, saying provocatively, "If you can't stand it, then break up."

What's wrong - don't think she's playing an April Fool's joke. Look at the blogs of girls in love. They want to let everyone in the world know how much they love their boyfriend. But she has no trace of you at all. In fact, it is not difficult to understand. If she is not with you anymore, of course she wants to leave fewer traces of you, for fear of hindering the development of new relationships in the future.

You should - blogging is her way of protesting, and she wants you to read it and gain some awareness of your relationship. A girl who has so much time to plan flirtatious plots is probably very lonely. Think about whether you lack time to accompany her.

4. In the new plan

Status - She started making many new plans, including those in her career and life, such as savings plans, weight loss goals, and all kinds of them. The only thing in common is that you don't exist in these plans. Of course, I am also very afraid to talk to you about the future.

What's wrong - two people can live together without thinking about the past, but they must always think about the future. They only think about themselves in everything. Except for some who are extremely selfish by nature, most of them have a trick up their sleeve. For example, you are obviously doing very well in China, but she is always eager to immigrate; after graduating with a master's degree, you agreed to work hard together, but she suddenly says she wants to study for a doctorate. Sorry, you have to provide her with more pocket money.

You should - in fact, everything proves that she is not ready to be responsible for the future of both of them. In other words, she doesn't have confidence in you yet. If you really love her, give her more confidence in your future.

5. On every date

Status - Do you remember that in the past, when you changed the style of your shirt, she was always the first to notice and give you compliments? But now, whether you change your hairstyle, perfume, or wear alternative clothes, she turns a blind eye.

What's wrong - what does your change have to do with me? This person has nothing to do with you, so you won't care about anything about him. So once she doesn't see your changes and doesn't care about your status, it means she is treating you as a passerby.

You should - of course not continue to attract her attention and do all kinds of things, but you should truly see into her heart. She doesn't care about your changes, so where is her attention? Once you discover this problem, it will be much easier to solve it.

6. At public gatherings or events

Status - When playing badminton, she was paired with others, joined the other team, and stood on the other side of the net. If you are in the same company, she will choose to join others and compete with you first.

What's wrong - even though you were once inseparable, she would rather be with someone else now. Your ranking has slipped from the "top seed" in your heyday to outside the top 10, and you should realize that you are already a has-been.

You should - treat her as a real opponent. Hitting her harshly will only show your pettiness. What you need to do is actually very simple. Be more gentlemanly, but show your strength and let her see your advantages from another side.

7. In the occasional chat

Status: She always says that she is not good enough and not worthy of you, and you should find a more beautiful, virtuous or sexy girl.

What's wrong - pay attention, this is a sign that a conscientious woman wants to leave you. She is tired of you and says something sarcastic to avoid making you feel guilty. At that time, whether she leaves you or you dump her, she doesn't want you to get hurt.

You should - if you continue to pester her, it would be very unwise. In fact, girls who say such things have probably already thought a lot about it. It is better to separate peacefully.