Three things women should never say in bed

In the men's clinic, male friends are often "forced" by their wives to see a doctor. After examination, it is found that the husbands often have no organic problems, but their wives' inadvertent words often bring them tension and anxiety, causing sexual dysfunction and even infertility. There are three things women should never say in bed.

The first sentence: "Can you do it?"

Some wives tend to pursue perfection too much in their sex lives, requiring their husbands to "respond" at all times and to be "strong and upright" every time. If they are not satisfied with something, they will often ask their husbands "Can you do it?" Little do they know that this will seriously undermine the husband's self-confidence and even cause serious psychological problems for him, making the occasional difficulty in erection or erectile dysfunction become frequent, and eventually lead to serious erectile dysfunction. In fact, it is normal for men to occasionally experience erectile dysfunction or weak erection due to fatigue, mental stress and other reasons. The wife should be considerate of her husband, comfort him with kind words, and resume sexual intercourse on another day after his physical strength has recovered.

Second sentence: "Why don't you ejaculate yet?"

Some wives, due to fear of pain during intercourse, worry about pregnancy, low libido or poor living environment, often "rush into intercourse", and hope that their husbands can "quit quickly". They also ask from time to time "Why don't you ejaculate yet?" As a result, the more they urge, the more difficult it is for their husbands to reach orgasm. In severe cases, they even have the problem of not being able to ejaculate during intercourse. Therefore, during sexual intercourse, the wife should try not to suppress her husband's thrusts, let alone frustrate her husband's sexual impulses, urge him to ejaculate as soon as possible, or end sexual intercourse midway. When this problem occurs, if it is a problem between men and women, they need to consult a specialist for diagnosis and treatment separately. If it is due to objective reasons such as the environment, they need to actively improve their living environment and adjust their work and rest schedule to make their sex life more harmonious.

The third sentence: "I must get pregnant this month"

In modern society, the pace of life is accelerating, and couples often hope to conceive as soon as possible once they plan to have a child. The wife often calculates the ovulation period and gives tasks to her husband. It turns out that the more I want to get pregnant, the harder it is to do so. In fact, female ovulation is affected by mental factors. If you are nervous, it can cause endocrine disorders and inhibit ovulation. Once you relax, ovulation will resume. Mood changes are also very important for men. Bad mental state can affect a man's ability to produce sperm.