6 things the original wife needs to learn from the mistress

1. Learn to dress like a mistress

The "mistress" is not necessarily younger than the original wife, nor necessarily beautiful, but they all have one thing in common: they are very good at dressing up and grooming themselves in front of men. Her clothes may not be expensive, but they will definitely dress herself up just right, making men feel pleasing to the eye and reluctant to leave. Women in marriage, especially after having children, often tend to neglect their appearance, and even think that it is nothing to care about since they are already an old couple, which makes men feel bored when facing the same unchanging face all day long. Some ladies may say, "Aren't I trying to save money?" Please remember my advice that good women can easily get lost in marriage. Women must wear their household belongings with them. Otherwise, you are saving money for the mistress, and the mistress will sleep with your husband, occupy your home, beat your child, and even spend the money you saved.

2. Learn to be gentle and considerate like a mistress

If you ask a man what kind of wife he likes, nine out of ten times the criteria he lists will include gentleness and consideration. The mistress understands this very well and is very good at figuring out a man's psychology. She knows exactly what to say to a man, the tone of voice, the actions she uses, and the requests she makes. She doesn't embarrass a man, nor does she make him feel disgusted. It’s different for women in marriage. For the sake of daily necessities, they often act like a lion inadvertently, which can scare away a man’s male hormones.

3. Learn from the mistress to regard men as her heaven

Men like to have women lean on them, especially women who treat them as their heaven. Mistresses understand this very well. At appropriate times, they will make some moderate requests to men to satisfy their desire to be needed. When a mistress encounters difficulties, she will act like a tearful girl in front of a man. After the man helps her solve the problem, she will be ecstatic and make the man feel that she is his heaven and he cannot live without her. But it’s different for women in marriage. They always say things like “Who’s afraid of whom? I can still live well without you”, which makes men feel unable to feel needed and feel like losers in front of women.

4. Learn from the tolerance of the mistress

Yu Rongguang's TV series "Mu Mansion Fengyun" is currently on the air. The reason why Aleqiu, who is a concubine (mistress), is becoming more and more loved by Mu Zeng is that Aleqiu knows how to be tolerant. In order to avoid war and not make things difficult for Mu Zeng, she is willing to be a concubine. The reason why the original wife Ashi Yu suffered a miserable defeat is that she does not know how to use tolerance as a weapon and put hatred into her heart.

The mistress understands this very well. Even if she doesn't want the man to leave her, she will pretend to be tactful and let the man go. As Aleqiu said, "To love a man is not to make things difficult for him, but to let him do what he likes with peace of mind." A mistress will not focus on a man’s shortcomings, she will treat him like a big boy. But it is different for women in marriage. They always complain that their husbands are made of iron and not steel for the sake of daily necessities. They even hold on to the shortcomings of men and make them feel embarrassed.

5. Learn the romance of a mistress

The mistress will remember the man’s birthday, observe his hobbies, play some romantic tricks in bed (a professional mistress said she has more than ten sets of sexy lingerie and wigs), remember clearly what the man likes and dislikes, and will use every opportunity to show her love to the man. It’s different for women in marriage. A couple came to me and the man complained that his wife didn’t pay attention to his feelings, while the woman said she wanted to give him her heart. It’s true that the husband has his reasons, but the wife has more reasons. In order to prove that he was not lying, the man asked the woman two questions in front of me: the man's birthday and what the man liked to eat. The woman couldn't answer either, so the wife's words were refuted.

6. Learn to be alone like a mistress

Some people say that a woman is most beautiful when she is alone, and there is some truth in this. There is a distance between a mistress and a man. When they meet, she is full of energy and as agile as a rabbit, but when she leaves, she leaves calmly and quietly like autumn water. I am not saying that the original wife should also distance herself from her husband like the mistress does, but I am saying that the original wife should give the man some space, and herself some space, and learn to be alone, and not clamor for the man to accompany her all day long, and wish to keep the man's whereabouts within her sight. Husband and wife are two lines that occasionally intersect. They cannot overlap at any time. If they overlap, they will no longer be two people. There is a time condition for being able to stay together forever.