6 ways to easily break a man's virgin complex

Do all men have a virgin complex? Perhaps only men themselves know the answer.

Once a man finds out that he is not the first, he will feel like picking up the "junk" that others don't want. This is about self-esteem as a man. Because they always want to be the first to try something new.

When in love, men generally have a curiosity mentality. During this period, men take it for granted that they should know their lover's past. I want to ask if the woman is a good woman or a beautiful girl from a good family. And they ask questions endlessly and uncontrollably, fearing that some unpleasant things will bring lifelong regrets.

Many men say to women: "It doesn't matter, I love you for who you are now and don't care about your past." In fact, this is a complete lie to themselves. Most men always care about their girlfriend's past. They believe that it is their right to explore their girlfriend's past, so they ask a woman about her past in every possible way without feeling narrow-minded or embarrassed. Such men can be found everywhere.

It seems understandable that men have a virgin complex, but this knot must be untied because it will affect men's mental health. How to solve a man’s virgin complex? Let’s take a look today.

1. A woman's first time

If you ask what kind of woman is most attractive to men, it must be a woman's reserve, gentleness like water and charm. Maybe you will say that many women can give these things, but the most natural and simple thing is for Virgo to give them, and this is what makes Virgo most attractive to men.

A woman’s first time is when she is shy and willing to give in, which makes the man unable to bear to be rude to her and makes the man carefully protect her, and it also arouses the man’s desire to protect the woman. After this first time, the relationship between man and woman has been further advanced and become more intimate. For the first time, the door to women's sexuality is opened, guiding them to pursue the pleasure of orgasm. Regardless of whether the first time is pleasant or not, it is the most unforgettable experience for men and women. It is an honor to be a partner of the first night.

A woman's first time only happens once in her life. It is so precious, how can a man not cherish it?

2. Hymen ≠ first time

Many people think that the hymen means first time, and they don’t understand why men prefer that layer of membrane. Therefore, many women go to the hospital for hymen repair surgery, hoping to keep their men. In today's world where everything can be faked, men no longer believe in the hymen. What's more, men don't just love the hymen, men love a woman's first time, men love virgins.

Hidden beneath the hymen are a woman's countless first times, and what one loves is the beauty and charm that lies beneath those countless times. Women who have had too much sexual experience think that men will not be able to tell the difference because of the cover of the hymen. However, a man's eyes are sharp, and he can distinguish which ones are natural expressions and which ones are artificial coquettishness. If a woman always has marginal sex with other men and does everything except sexual intercourse, what is the meaning of this membrane to men?

Therefore, hymen does not equal first time. Don’t do any surgery to please men. Men are not stupid!

3. Love ≠ Sex

The depth of feelings has nothing to do with the number of times you have sex. Possessing a person's body does not mean possessing all of that person. In fact, it is easy to possess a woman's body as long as you have well-developed limbs; but it is not easy to possess a woman, it requires wisdom and charm. Here men should understand that love is not the same as sex.

4. Chastity ≠ Hymen

The hymen can be repaired at only 400 yuan. Do you still think that women who bleed the first time they go to bed with you are chaste? A woman's chastity is related to her moral character, not to her hymen. It is obvious that a slut with a hymen is still a slut. This is undoubtedly a huge irony for men who desire virgins.

5. Traditional morality ≠ current values

If all men in the world are virgins, then it is not surprising that all women are also virgins. In fact, men are all beneficiaries of sexual openness, but they suddenly become defenders of tradition. They always desire other women to be more outspoken, while requiring their own women to remain chaste. How wishful thinking! The idea of ​​male superiority and female inferiority constructed by feudal traditional thinking is not suitable for modern values.

6. Virginity ≠ Perfection

A person who equates hymen with perfection actually falls in love with only the hymen, and he may transfer his affection to any virgin at any time. Only dirty men think that being in love with a virgin is perfect. Perfect love lies in the fact that two people can understand each other and walk through life together, appreciating each other's strengths and tolerating each other's weaknesses.

Remember the above six points, will you still care so much whether she is a virgin?