Marrying these 6 types of wives will ruin a man's life

In love, no one owes anyone anything. If the debt is endless, then the gratitude will be something that can never be repaid.

1. A woman who wants to change a man

She may come from a loveless family and never received emotional warmth. Since she cannot get love from her parents no matter how hard she tries, she will desperately seek it in her partner. If her partner does not know how to give her the right amount of love, she will try to change him. She always feels that the other person is not perfect enough, but still "firmly believes in the other person's potential" and will do everything she can to turn the other person into the person she needs. If you refuse to accept her "transformation", your marriage will come to an end.

2. A woman without self

She may have never taken good care of herself. When someone who needs care appears, she naturally focuses all her attention on that person and devotes all her efforts to that person. She is willing to accept and bear the blame and guilt that arises in the emotional world anytime and anywhere. She does not live for herself, but for others; rather than being a selfless and devoted good girl, she is a love slave who has lost herself. However, marriage is a partnership of equals, not a master-servant relationship. When a man is with a woman who has no self, he bears the heaviest emotional burden. Unless you are a cold-blooded man who can accept her "sacrifice" calmly. As for herself, once the man leaves her for some reason, she may collapse because she cannot accept the reality.

3. A woman without a bottom line

She never felt secure, had no moderation, and could never be content. Once she falls in love with someone, even if the other person will never belong to her, she will not give up. She will wait, and while waiting, she will work harder to do things that cross the bottom line. Such women are more emotional and will act on impulse without considering the consequences, whether it is crazy shopping or extreme pursuit of enjoyment. In marriage, she cannot face the outcome of being abandoned. Even if the relationship comes to an end, she will do whatever it takes to keep him at all costs.

4. A woman who lacks self-confidence

She never had confidence, and even when happiness came to her, she didn't believe it was real. She doubted everything, including love, because her mind could not bear the warmth of love. If you marry a woman like this, you must be prepared to deal with her sensitivity and suspicion at any time, and to bear all the storms in her life. Similarly, if her emotions encounter twists and turns, she will only let herself live in a world full of fantasy, away from the real reality. Just like an ostrich, when faced with danger, it buries its head in the sand, thinking that everything will be fine if it doesn't face it. In fact, she just didn't have the courage to face reality.

5. A woman who "abuses herself"

She is willing to be with those who are not doing well in their emotions and lives and have constant problems, seeking comfort from them to cover up her own confusion and irresponsibility. Perhaps because she experienced abnormal hardships and misfortunes while growing up, she will not cherish the "kind" people who are wholeheartedly doing good for her. In her eyes, a peaceful life is too dull. She prefers to conquer turbulent days and difficult people and sees it all as a thrill. Such women are prone to cheating in marriage because they are not satisfied with the dull life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, but like to seek novelty and excitement again and again.

6. A woman who can’t get rid of her parents

Unlike the previous five, her life is not without love, but rather she has too much love, too much dedication and sacrifice from her parents. But in her eyes, this kind of love is an endless debt and a favor that can never be repaid in a lifetime.