Reasons to be single that make you taller

Have you passed the threshold of being a leftover woman but still haven’t found a boyfriend? People around you always complain that you are too outstanding and too busy. Do you need to make yourself less outstanding because of this? No. If they nag you again, you can say this to them.

Reason: It’s hard to marry a woman who is too outstanding

When you start to achieve success in your career and cope with your single life with ease, there will always be someone who will jump out and tell you that all your efforts and success are actually the culprits that prevent you from finding true love.

Therefore, we are warned by so-called “experts” to learn to be “weak little women”, to play dumb and dumb in front of men, never let them think that you are better than them, and even if you have a doctorate, you have to act like a hollow vase in front of his friends… until you even want to slap yourself: Why am I humiliating myself?!

Of course, there are indeed some men with unique tastes who prefer deformed women who are powerless, but are these men really strong enough? Showing weakness does not mean "showing that you are mentally retarded", but "showing beautiful tenderness and fragility". To put it simply, it means - I am strong, so only a stronger man can conquer me.

Reason: Too picky to find a boyfriend

When a family member or friend says, “You’re too picky,” you as a single person will be filled with anger but unable to vent it.

I don't require him to be handsome or tall, have a car or a house, or how much money he makes. I just want to find a man who can communicate with me happily like a friend and who makes me want to go to bed with him. But everyone says that my requirements are too high! When you passed the tenth blind date, the people around you finally got angry. They thought you were too picky, as if your passing line should only have three standards: male, alive, and single. The reasons that make you unhappy can only highlight your narrow-mindedness and short-sightedness: his mediocre career shows that he is honest and reliable; the fact that he always mentions his mother's words shows that he is filial and has a conscience; as for the fact that he wants to pay for the meal with you for the first time, it only shows that he has the virtue of being frugal and keeping a good home.

However, having a low bottom line does not mean that we have no principles! How can we be picky? So next time someone blames you for passing up an unreliable blind date, you might as well say to him/her: Such a good man should be worthy of a more picky woman.

Reason: You don’t understand gender relations

Most media and so-called experts on gender relations always like to describe dating between men and women as a sports competition - and due to physiological, psychological, social, public opinion, cultural and traditional factors, women are usually the losers, while single men are the biggest winners. They have the best of both worlds, with constant invitations and the great freedom of being single, like a martial arts master who can walk through a field of flowers without getting a single leaf on him.

Over time, all the girls turned into defensive players with a lot of thoughts. We had agreed to have dinner together, why did he postpone it? We clearly agreed to call at this time, why hasn’t his phone rung yet? Well, based on years of being influenced by dating guides, this girl will most likely turn around and walk away.

But have you ever thought that maybe there is no hidden secret and it is just that careless guy who accidentally forgot?

What you need to do is to seriously ask yourself: "All in all, how does this person make me feel?" A hasty judgment and an impulsive decision may cause you to miss out on your Mr. Right. Even if you are unhappy in many ways, at most you can just ring the alarm bell for yourself in your heart and give him a small warning.

Although girls who are scheming and know the rules of the game can always attract men's attention, the relationship that can truly go hand in hand is definitely the simplest and most open one.

Reason: There is no room for men in life

You show off your delicious food, travels, marathons, and charity sales in your circle of friends. Your life is colorful, your friends are colorful, and your youth is endless, etc. - if you accidentally forget to stop your parents, I believe they will not be as happy as your friends to leave a message and like your post. The two elders would feel sad: Who would dare to control this crazy woman?

Those girls live a fulfilling life even when they are single. A rich social life means putting yourself in the spotlight for people to see. If a man is deterred by your wonderful lifestyle, it only means that he is a stingy person who is not strong enough inside, and you wouldn't want such a man.

Reason: Being obsessed with work will turn men off

You are too busy at work to date, there are not enough single men of the right age, and the nature of your job makes it difficult for you to settle down... Hey, either change jobs quickly or complain that a job that brings you financial income and a sense of security affects your happiness. Is that okay?

Please look around you. Your bosses are busier and have more pressure than you, but they are not all single, right? There must be some who are happily married and have happy families. Your colleagues do the same job as you and deal with the same clients, but they are not all single men and women who are unclaimed, right? There is indeed a so-called "hard-to-marry industry" in the workplace, but none of them is a true "nun industry", otherwise the Ministry of Civil Affairs would have intervened long ago.

So, don’t complain that your job blocks your romance, as it is the best channel that can bring you endless opportunities and possibilities. As for what to do? In addition to "treating all men around you as men", learn more from colleagues around you who are happy in love.

What should I do if someone around me forces me to get married?

Before forcing them to marry, state your requirements first.

Before the aunts and uncles open their mouths, they would quickly make requests to them, such as: "My dream lover must be a peerless hero. I hope he can wear golden armor and come to marry me on a colorful cloud." After hearing this, most matchmakers would give up. If that cat encounters that mouse and really finds one for you, then you'd better decline it, as it will be an unexpected gain.

Pretend to be heartbroken

When you return home feeling heartbroken and fresh from a breakup, your family will most likely not provoke you with emotional issues at this time. But please remember, don't get too into it, or your parents will worry too much about you; don't stay sad for too long, or they might ask you to find a man to help you divert your attention...

Looking for a temporary boyfriend

This is a classic method that has been tried and tested in the single world. Use practical actions to temporarily silence the gossips; after a while, it is not uncommon for the fake play to become real!

If a man says "You are so good", it is just an excuse to cover up his own lack of quality. Do you need to be sad about this? NO. Be confident and find a man who is right for you.