Women who have been single for a long time are more likely to orgasm through masturbation than through sexual intercourse

Is it easier for women to orgasm through masturbation than through sexual intercourse after being single for a long time? Regarding this issue, some experts pointed out that the bigger factor is actually a psychological problem. Couples need to strengthen communication and not pay too much attention to this issue. As long as they communicate, the problem can be solved.

Q: My husband and I have been separated for more than three years due to work reasons. During this period, he satisfied his sexual desires through masturbation. Now that we are reunited, I find that he is still used to masturbation. He says it is simpler and quicker. And now he can only ejaculate through masturbation. What's going on? Is there something wrong with his body?

Answer: That is not a direct physical reason. The key is that there may be some problems in the couple's past sexual activity patterns, so that he may feel that masturbation is easier and faster, and he may therefore form an imperfect sexual activity pattern, and he may even only be able to ejaculate through masturbation. On the one hand, it is because his sexual ability is a little difficult, or it is not easy to meet his wife's requirements. He needs to put in more effort, which often makes him feel troublesome, and it is not as satisfying as masturbating himself. On the other hand, if the two people do not have a frank and in-depth communication on this issue, the man will certainly not know what the woman is thinking. The man himself will feel comfortable, but others will feel upset and uncomfortable. Therefore, communication is of vital importance. If you show consideration and care for each other, there will naturally be fewer contradictions and conflicts.