What kind of people fall in love with "little fresh meat"

Every year when new students enter the school, the seniors start looking forward to the arrival of the "fresh meat"!

What exactly is a "fresh meat"? It seems that this is a question that is constantly being expanded and improved. However, from the perspective of TA interaction analysis psychology, the necessary condition for being a "fresh meat" is to have a relatively high level of "free child" and to be able to maintain this energy relatively steadily. It is precisely because of this inner energy that the typical characteristic of this group is that they are extremely cute!

Some friends may raise questions about "appearance", that is, it seems that the "fresh meat" category all have faces that are more pleasing to the eye. In fact, we also mentioned a point in another article about the "High Romantic Encounter Index during Travel", that is, people with good looks can indeed get a lot of extra points, but even if this index is not high, as long as it is not so low as to make people sick (a face like a flower) or fearful (a face like Zhang Fei), there is still a great chance of turning things around. This actually explains why many "fresh hunks" are not really delicate and petite, but they make us feel "fresh and juicy" psychologically.

Cute people are destined to be cute

Objectively speaking, the birth of a "fresh meat" requires a nurturing family environment, which means that not everyone can become a "fresh meat" or pretend to be a "fresh meat". Because if we look at it from the perspective of family influence, a person who is imbued with the energy of a "free child" both inside and out cannot do without a growth environment where both "caring parents" and "free children" are relatively high. Only in such a growth environment can the "free child" energy in a person be well preserved. At the same time, a family with relatively high energy values ​​in both categories means that the economic conditions and consumption capacity are relatively strong - that is to say, at least one of the parents is more playful and noisy, which actually creates a perfect growth environment for the birth of authentic "little fresh meat".

On the contrary, if the child grows up in an environment of strict control or even frequent domestic violence, the "free child" energy in the body will be suppressed very severely. In the long run, even if he has not learned the tendency of domestic violence from his parents, he will appear to be lacking in confidence and extremely introverted, which means he basically does not have the innate conditions to become a "fresh meat" that everyone pays attention to.

Fresh meat is not loved by everyone

Back to the question mentioned in the title, what kind of people would fall in love with young and handsome guys?

The first thing to emphasize is what kind of people don't like it. Specifically, people who have the three energies of "controlling parents", "adult self" and "submissive children" in their bodies will not resonate with "fresh meat" from the bottom of their hearts! If they have to have some reaction, it must be "the urge to strangle him to death"!

Why? Because people with higher "controlling parents" energy will feel that "little fresh meat" will not obey their discipline, and will do whatever they want. It is basically impossible to meet their expectations and requirements of them. People with higher "adult self" energy will find that when they get along with "little fresh meat", they basically have different frequencies of communication. Their highly logical words are basically like playing the lute to a cow in front of "little fresh meat". As for people with higher "obedient children", they will feel numb all over when they see "little fresh meat", especially when they see them acting cute, they will really sigh and question "the world is too scary! How can such people exist?"

At this point, the final answer is obvious. Just like the family environment that creates "little fresh meat", people with a high level of "caring parents" and "free children" have no resistance to "little fresh meat" at all - especially when there is an age gap of one or more "generations" between them and the "little fresh meat" in front of them!

It's also good to make a ham

At this point, I can actually support those friends who are not too fond of "fresh meat". That is, the preservation of "fresh meat" must require a high-investment stable environment, and this environment is like our refrigerator at home. It can only keep running if it is always powered on. Otherwise, the food inside will rot quickly!

This is just like the growth environment of the "fresh meat" we mentioned earlier. In fact, as time goes by, there are not so many people who are as caring and attentive as "back then". He still has to accept all kinds of reality baptisms on his own and watch himself lose the identity of "fresh meat".

At this time, "fresh meat" has no advantage over "big hams" that have experienced wind, frost, rain and snow, because "fresh meat" in supermarkets is always available and everyone can pick it up. The rest can only be sold at a reduced price or made into braised meat and sold for a few more days. However, authentic "ham" is a rare and long-lasting product that does not spoil. After the freshness has worn off, it is nothing special. Instead, the ham that has experienced vicissitudes of life is more worth having!