Are sexy and charming women necessarily good in bed?

Some people believe that sexy women also have strong sexual desire. In fact, this is not true. Sexiness and sexual desire are two different concepts, but they are both related and different.

Generally speaking, sexiness refers to whether one is sexually attractive, which is an external manifestation; while the strength of sexual desire is an internal need. Sexiness is often inseparable from physical development. For example, a woman with full breasts, thin waist, round hips, pretty eyes, etc. will give people a very sexy feeling. The sexiness of a woman can be enhanced or weakened through her clothing. Enhancing sexiness is an important principle in women's clothing design. For example, tight and fitted clothes can fully show the curves of the chest, waist and hips, and the chest, hips and legs can be appropriately exposed to show the charm of women. Sexy or not is not only an external display of the subject, but also a subjective feeling of the object. Sometimes in society, this situation happens: a woman dresses up deliberately and thinks she is very sexy, but others feel disgusted when they see her.

Sexiness is inseparable from physiological conditions, that is to say, a plump woman has fully developed sexual physiology, normal endocrine system, and is natural. Normal people should have certain sexual demands. In feudal dynasties, women selected to become concubines had to undergo physical examinations. On the one hand, they were checked to see if they were virgins, and on the other hand, their chest circumference, hip circumference, height, weight, etc. were measured to understand the maturity of their sexual physiological development.

As for whether the sexual desire is strong or not, it not only depends on the sexual physiological condition, but also on the sexual psychology and sexual experience. For example, when a couple loves each other and has a harmonious sex life, the woman's sexual desire is stronger than those wives whose relationship with their spouse is not good. If a woman has been raped, this vicious psychological stimulation will greatly weaken her sexual desire, or even cause her to lose her sexual desire. If her husband's sexual intercourse is rough, it will be difficult for his wife to become sexually excited. Some women regard sex as something obscene and unclean, and are in a state of sexual repression for a long time, which will also greatly weaken their own sexual desire.

It can be seen that sexiness and sexual desire are based on the healthy development of sexual physiology and psychology. On a normal basis. So some people say that the best "aphrodisiac" is love and the most complete sexiness is health, which makes sense.