Why do men always think other people’s wives are better?

Many people know that men like other people's wives, but few people say it out loud. Most men keep this love in their hearts and dare not say it openly. But where does this mentality come from? Why do men still like other people's wives when they have a beautiful wife at home?

How attractive is someone else's wife?

First of all, there is a difference in perspective

Because I was with my wife every day and spent too much time with her, the passion we once had was worn away. The advantages that it once possessed gradually lost their color in the eyes that were staring at it. And because of the compatibility and mutual assistance of day and night, those spots that were once invisible stand out. Gradually, the wife who was full of advantages became full of disadvantages. As for other people’s wives, because you are only looking at them from a distance, you can only see their merits. Men like to compare, and they will have this feeling when they see that other people’s wives are better than their own wives. This makes some men feel less and less about their own wives, and more and more appreciative of other people's wives.

The second is the psychology of seeking novelty and difference

Novelty, men like to find novelty. As time goes by, passion is diluted by time. What you can't get is always the best, and for this reason, you will develop a desire to win. There are always endless fantasies about other people's wives. That figure, that body, and every possible detail will bring endless passion. This desire for novelty and to experience different feelings is the reason why most men fantasize about married women.

How to get a man's attention on you

So, how can you win back a man's heart and make him focus on you instead of other women? Let's take a look at what kind of women are most popular with men in their eyes.

Although relationships between men and women are based on fate, everyone actually has their own health preferences. What kind of women do men like? Feelings can only be obtained through some means. Women, do you think that reserved and shy women are most popular with men? In the world of love, you can't wait for it passively, nor can you just wait quietly for men to take the initiative. This mentality makes you lose too many opportunities.

1. A bad woman with bad intentions

Food, sex and nature are part of human nature. In fact, lust is not just a man's nature. Women also have the lustful gene. However, under the influence of traditional concepts, women's lustful nature has been destroyed. Ladies consider shyness as beauty and reserve as appropriate. In their concept, women should be passive in love. They look a little dull and are role models of morality. Sexy women are full of confidence. They dare to face men's teasing and are skilled in sexual techniques, which can make men enjoy it. There is only sex in a man's love dictionary. The charm and enchantment of a sexy woman make it impossible for a man to pull himself away. Compared with the ladies' cautiousness, carefulness, rigidity and stiffness, the passion and heat of the slut instantly attracts the men's attention and makes them fascinated by her. Women don't love men who are not bad. In fact, men don't love women who are not bad. Slutty women are a little bad, but they are bad in just the right way, so bad that men have to love them. The biggest temptation for men is that they are so bad that no man can completely possess them.

2. Confident women

Confident women are the most lovable, but how they display their confidence is the difference. If you are the type of person who confidently maintains a bit of reserve and believes that there will definitely be men who love you, you will often be ignored by men in the end; true confidence should be that she dares to face the burning gaze from a handsome guy on a crowded street. She is confident, she can fully display her strengths and beauty, and it is easier for her to gain love. A lady who never dares to look directly into the eyes of a handsome guy will never be attracted to him. A woman who dares to look directly into the other person's burning gaze is more likely to spark love with a man.

3. A woman who knows how to dress herself up

A woman's beauty comes partly from her natural appearance and partly from dressing up. It is true that beauties are all made up. In this fast-food era, it is outdated to still cling to the idea that plain noodles are beautiful. Of course, if you are charmingly pure without makeup, then go for it. Ladies think that they can attract men's favor by staying at home and being a lady in the boudoir. However, times have progressed and ladies in the boudoir are no longer men's favorite. When men say they like beauties without makeup, they actually mean they like people who can look stunning even without makeup. Women with yellow faces only deserve to be despised.