Couples live together to meet this need

Generally speaking, unmarried men and women live together. This proposal is usually made by the man first. The girl just caters to the request, or compromises, or even is completely at a loss. Of course, there are also situations where women take the lead and both parties hit it off, but they are not a minority. So when a man and a woman live together, is their cohabitation due to deep love or due to physiological needs?

Living together for sex

It is usually a man who proposes living together and it is also a man who helps you move. After that, the sex life that used to be sneaky and sneaky turned into regular sex, and my boyfriend changed the way he addressed me among his friends from "girlfriend" to "wife". More importantly, every month I have to use the test strips to test myself with trepidation, begging myself not to get pregnant...

So, many women began to constantly wake up the people who were sleeping next to them. DD: Living with me, are you doing it for love or for sex? No man is stupid enough to choose the second option. However, faced with an indefinite engagement, women still cannot feel at ease. Since the purpose of living together is not this relatively safe double bed, why can't we get married?

No commitment required

Some women don't need commitment at all. What is a boyfriend? As long as there is no bondage of marriage, a boyfriend is just a good friend playing a love game with you. The bedroom they shared was just a place for the two of them to play games.

Unfortunately, I'm unlucky enough to meet a stubborn man. Most of these men put true love above all else, and they need responsibility, ambition, love and perseverance. If things go wrong, he might as well be a young virgin. They believe that cohabitation is a prelude to marriage. Since you have given yourself to me, I promise to take care of you for the rest of your life...

The women were dumbfounded by the promise. God knows, living with you is just to make the game more exciting. Commitment? I can't afford it. Responsibility? It’s not your responsibility. What about marriage? Sorry, it's too far away...

What to do after a breakup

In a sense, cohabitation is a manifestation of lack of confidence in marriage. Now that you have made up your mind, why do you still bother to call it a "trial marriage"?

Since you are not confident, one of the biggest problems you face after living together is breaking up. After a long or short period of getting along, the two of them discovered that they were not suitable for each other. What to do? Just break up. However, after returning to the ranks of singles, I found that my choices were extremely narrow. I can no longer keep a male colleague with whom I had an ambiguous relationship in the past. Everyone knows that I have been living with a certain man for a year. Even if they really get together, he will have something to talk about if we have a quarrel in the future.

Cohabitation Restriction Life

The biggest gap for women in cohabitation is the transition from the previous romantic life to the daily necessities of life. Love is no longer romantic, and life has become tedious. I have to get up early and go to work late every day, and then drag my tired body back to mop the floor, wash clothes, cook... One day when I was putting on makeup, I looked in the mirror and was immediately shocked to find that the beauty on my face had gradually faded.

The most important problem is that I am not 100% confident in my boyfriend. When we didn’t live together before, I could occasionally have a tryst with a few wealthy and handsome “new good men” to see if there were better opportunities to climb up the social ladder again. But since we started living together, I found that my every move has been strictly monitored. I have to report if I want to go out for dinner with someone. As for dating someone of the opposite sex? No way!

Social rumors are scary

Rumors from the outside world are indeed powerful, especially for you who work in a government department. You need to be more cautious and take every step carefully, otherwise you will lose everything. Since you have chosen to live together, it is equivalent to choosing an underground job. I get off work in a hurry every day, and when my boyfriend comes to pick me up, he has to avoid being seen. You are too nervous. You are afraid of being seen by the gossipers in the company, you are afraid of being caught by the boss, and you are even more afraid of losing the opportunity for promotion because of living together... Finally one day, you can't bear it anymore. Why do we live together?