After a while, I lose interest in beautiful women.

Why did you fall in love with her so deeply at the beginning, even though you were as beautiful as a fairy and had many suitors, even though you are married to her now, but there are still many suitors like you waiting in line to date her, but you find that your husband is not as good to you as before, and he doesn't care about you as much, and your beauty and sexiness can't arouse his sexual interest anymore. Do you find it strange?

Even when your husband has a beautiful woman like you as his wife, he still cheats on her and even finds a mistress who is older and uglier than you. Why is that?

In a word, your husband no longer has the same passion and freshness for you as he did in the past.

Why are men like this? You don’t understand? Let me tell you the secret of men’s sexual psychology.

When a marriage reaches the "separation period", incompatibility on sexual issues is also a major culprit that causes the marriage to go into trouble.

Men and women act differently, which leads to different views on sexiness. Men can compartmentalize many things, so he may be angry one moment and be affectionate with his wife the next. In order to have a happy and fulfilling marriage, the timetable should definitely be advanced to before marriage, and you should carefully examine whether he is the one you want.

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Motives for marriage and clear values

Event: Gao Xiaosong and Chen Huan got married within 3 days of knowing each other, but finally 3 years later, news of their breakup came out. Afterwards, Gao Xiaosong reacted low-key to the matter and did not give any explanation about the reason for the divorce. Gao Xiaosong said: "We were 7 years apart in age and we were in love for only 3 days. Basically, we fell in love right after we met and I married her when we were full of passion."

Symptoms: Both parties fail to adequately communicate and adjust to the deeper factors of the marriage. 1. Motivation for marriage? Problems after marriage caused by hasty marriage without thorough investigation are usually difficult to reconcile. 2. Values ​​and personality? The survey shows that among all the factors leading to divorce, differences in values ​​are the most fundamental reason. 3. Marriage, the rights and obligations of both parties? If there is only love, people often lack the necessary consideration for the obligations in marriage.

Tips: If you are in love with him, calm down for two minutes and think about the following N things: Do you know his family background? Are you sure you can get along well with his family? Are you sure you have the same reasons for being anxious to get married? Can you name a few of his life habits that he has developed since childhood? Are they within your "adjustable" range?

Recently, a kind of "personality marriage examination" has quietly emerged in cities such as Nanjing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Zhengzhou, Shenyang, and Wuxi. The "Personality Marriage Checkup" uses professional psychological tests to help both parties understand their own personality traits and the degree of complementarity and compatibility between their personalities, thereby providing suggestions for harmonious coexistence. As a supplement to premarital physical examination, "personality premarital examination" has attracted the attention of more and more people who are concerned about the quality of marriage.

Running-in period

When a novice gets started, it always takes some time to "run in". Only after getting used to each other's habits, the soup can start to bubble up.

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Background and habits adapt to each other

Event: He Yong, one of the "Three Masters of Magic Rock", and female writer Yin Lichuan got married in September last year and divorced at the beginning of this year, ending their marriage after 4 months. Both parties reacted in a low-key manner. The outside world generally believed that they were not suitable for marriage and might soon find that marriage would only tie the hands of both parties.

Symptoms: During the adjustment period, conflicts usually arise in superficial living habits: such as work and rest time, living habits, food taste, concept of time, and almost all details of life need to be adjusted and "neutralized".

Tips: Two people who have just gotten married actually have to go through all kinds of small details in life and see if they are willing to adapt to each other. This is similar to how new roommates get along with each other in a college dormitory. You may be able to "turn a blind eye" to your college roommate, but you can't help but want to correct him. You can prepare a new rule that takes both parties into consideration to balance their different habits.

Time difference between men and women

When a marriage reaches the "separation period", incompatibility on sexual issues is also a major culprit that causes the marriage to go into trouble. Men and women act differently, which leads to different views on sexiness. Men can compartmentalize many things, so he may be angry one moment and be affectionate with his wife the next. This just might have angered his wife even more. Women are emotional animals. They require "harmony of temperament and mood". The pace is slower and "time difference" objectively exists. What they want is mutual understanding rather than complaints.

After reading the above reasons for men's sexual psychology, if you know the reasons, you have to find ways to solve them. It mainly depends on you. The editor can't teach you because this is something you have to do yourself. No one else can do it. I can only give you advice. More communication is the most important thing.