Women define the characteristics of a perfect man

In the eyes of men, the definition of a perfect woman may vary. So, in the eyes of women, what kind of man is the best man? In fact, a woman must know how to observe a man before choosing a husband, because there are many high-quality men who do not show all their advantages. So, in the eyes of women, what kind of man is most suitable to be a husband?

Have a sense of professionalism

Career is an important element of a truly perfect family. A man should be ambitious so that he can provide strong guarantees for his family's lives. A career-oriented man does not look around, does not switch sides, and is wholeheartedly tied to his career. It makes you feel distressed when you look at him, and love him when you think about him. However, there might be unexpected events if she gets married, as she has quite a few problems. He is too stingy to walk a few steps with you on the street. No matter how much you persuade him to accompany you to the mall, he will just wait under the shade of a tree outside the mall. What's more important is that he is a hands-off boss and leaves all the household chores to you, asking you to take care of them and making you annoyed.

But if he is too career-oriented, he will spend less time on your family and you. If you ask him to go shopping with you, he says it's boring; if you ask him to go to the movies with you, he says he doesn't have time. He has achieved success in his career and you have also enjoyed the glory, but that is what others see. What others cannot see is your loneliness over the long years. Men who are not too career-oriented know how to be considerate and loving to you.

Be enterprising

Maybe you have never seen him lose his temper with you, nor have you seen him scolding you out of deep dissatisfaction with something. I take care of you in every possible way, even meticulously. He is also hardworking and conscientious in the unit. Colleagues ask him for help when they need to run errands, and they send him to do the hard tasks that no one wants to do. In every year-end evaluation, he always receives positive comments like "good at unity, hardworking, and willing to endure hardships." However, his colleagues are all more successful than him, while he is still being sent around at will, and there is no sign of "improvement" at all. But he is not annoyed or anxious.

"I thought he was a talent, but he turned out to be a waste. He can't smoke, drink or do anything, and has no future in the government. The skinny guy next door, Xiao Li, has no diploma or manners. He learned to do business two years ago and already has a car and a villa. He is a working class and it is difficult for him to get rich in the short term." It is rare to have a calm mindset, but being too temperless, lacking in ambition and fighting spirit, although in the future he can live a plain and stable life with his wife and children, and there will be fewer twists and turns, but we women are afraid that this "Ninja Turtle" temper will be passed on to ourselves in the long-term life together, making ourselves like the women of our mothers' generation, becoming "robots" who support the family.

A little money

If a man is a pauper, he has no house or car, he has to feel his wallet and think for a long time before going to the market to buy vegetables, he has struggled in poverty for a long time, and his "stinginess" index is hundreds or thousands of times higher than that of the average person. If you marry such a man, you will be exhausted or angry to death! Life will definitely not be easy. Nowadays, a man should have money, so he can be carefree and his wife can also be happy. Love is a piece of clothing that needs money to support it.

However, the most unfortunate thing is this. Clothes can be changed at will. If this kind of man is so carefree and carefree that he forgets the way home, wouldn't it make you look at the lonely moon and shed bitter tears? In the real world, being rich is almost equal to having ability and luck. If a man has excellent ability and luck, he will indulge himself in many aspects, including choosing a wife. If you marry this kind of man, you will be worried all the time in your life, and there is a risk of being laid off every minute and every second!

"Men become bad when they have money." You should not marry a man who has been poor for a long time and then suddenly becomes rich. Even if he is a passionate person, you cannot watch him or control him or her. It is hard to guard against and it is difficult to deal with. Therefore, a good man should be like this: he should have enough food and clothing, but not be rich.

Don't be too honest and afraid of things

I once saw a joke like this: a boyfriend and girlfriend slept in the same room, and the girl drew a line: anyone crossing the line is a beast! The girl woke up and found out that the boy really had not crossed the line. The woman slapped the man hard: You are worse than an animal! Haha, it seems that men who are too honest have to be dismissed too.

Men who are responsible live for a belief. They only do what they should do, not what they want to do. Generally, men who are responsible have too many rules and regulations. If you love too deeply, he will make you resentful; if you love too shallowly, the two of you can be together, but such love is either awkward or boring.

In addition, when a conscientious man walks into the office and starts working, he is like a game machine with coins inserted, and he can exert super energy in a short period of time. If this game machine suddenly stops, it must be because a cowardly coin was put into it by mistake.

A man who is timid, fearful, and hides in a corner will only be looked down upon by his leaders and colleagues. Even if some sympathy is given, no one will throw coins into his pocket again. Although women may be confident in men who are too obedient, this reveals their pettiness. Most women like men who can add more passion to their lives. Although women do want everything to go according to plan and life to be stable and comfortable, they also want to have some "passion" occasionally.