After marriage, men are most afraid of their wives doing these 5 things

Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are also afraid of marrying the wrong person. They are afraid that the couple will not get along after marriage, and if they are not careful, they will live in dire straits. Compared with women, men are more eager to have a happy family and expect to have a gentle and virtuous woman behind them to cheer for him. The vast majority of married men adhere to a creed in their hearts, which is "a harmonious family brings prosperity". If there is no harmony in the family, it will definitely hurt muscles, bones, and mind.

Generally speaking, men are most afraid of the following five things after getting married:

1. Afraid of being squeezed.

Many women become unfilial after marriage and start to find fault with their husband’s parents. Complaining that they don't know how to behave, that they do this wrong, that they do not do that right, and always complaining about your mother and your father. Some women even don't care about their men's parents and prevent men from fulfilling their filial piety to their parents, which eventually leads to discord between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and sudden family conflicts. When parents have no place to vent their anger, they hit their son on the head with a brick without mercy; when a wife has no place to vent her anger, she stabs her husband in the heart. If you make your parents happy, your wife will be unhappy; if you are not nice to your parents, then you are "forgetting the mother after marrying a wife", a complete ungrateful person. A man has to dodge bricks on one hand, and guard against cold knives on the other. He has to put on a smiling face on both sides, but he is not treated as a human being on both sides. It is really not a pleasant feeling.

2. Afraid of his wife, he will be on guard everywhere.

After getting married, some women, in order to prevent men from becoming bad after having money, keep a close eye on their men's wallets, just as they would guard against thieves. This often makes the men appear petty, stingy, and unmanly in front of relatives and friends, causing them to lose face that they shouldn't lose. There are also some women who, after getting married, are afraid that their husbands will do something behind their backs, so they restrict their husbands very tightly, even depriving them of freedom of movement. Even when their husbands are having a meal with friends, they have to call them repeatedly to urge them to come back. What's worse, once a man talks to a woman for a few more words, goes on a business trip with a female colleague, or accompanies guests to an entertainment venue, he will pester her and ask her questions. It is not uncommon for women to intentionally or unintentionally look through a man's phone and peek into his chat history. When a wife is on guard everywhere, it means she has great distrust of her husband, and the man suffers a lot.

3. Afraid of wife’s nagging.

Nine out of ten men are afraid of their married women's gossip. Generally speaking, there are two types of nagging: one is endless complaining, and the other is sharp words that hurt others invisibly. As for the former, due to the huge psychological gap before and after marriage, many women cannot hide their disappointment and dissatisfaction with men. They find men unpleasant to the eye and begin to complain and criticize them. She talks about it before meals, after meals, before going to bed, and as soon as she opens her eyes. She even digs up old things, exposes her shortcomings at every turn, and nags her all the time, often making the man upset. However, after marriage, some women like to compare with others and are accustomed to pouring cold water on men. As soon as they open their mouths, knives will come out. What we often hear and see are, "You are so useless", "Look how capable others are", "All you do all day long is fool around", "You are just a loser"... No matter how strong a man is, he cannot withstand repeated torture. If you can't keep your mouth shut, trouble will come.

4. Afraid that the wife cannot manage the household.

After getting married, some women become like princesses. They can’t cook, are too lazy to do housework, and are too playful. They either go shopping endlessly or shop online without considering the consequences. They spend money lavishly and never know how to control themselves. Compared to men, if a woman does not take care of the family, does not know how to budget carefully, or does not know how to manage finances and does not know how to take care of her husband and children, it is more frightening than having no money in her pocket.

Days go by one by one, and life is inseparable from the daily necessities of life. A woman who cannot manage family life will often make a man lose his way. In the vast majority of families in China, men are the breadwinners outside the home, while women are the homemakers. If a fire accidentally breaks out in the backyard, the man outside will definitely have to take care of everything. A woman who is good at housekeeping can often make a man concentrate; a woman who is not good at housekeeping can often make a man fall into the gutter.

5. Afraid that your wife will have different dreams while sleeping in the same bed.

Women are afraid of men cheating, and men are also afraid of women having affairs and betraying their marriage and family. The word "affair" has never been as frightening as it is today. Examples of women cheating on their husbands are common on the Internet and in print media. Some women like to flirt with the opposite sex before marriage, and they still can't control their feelings after marriage. Or, they are dissatisfied with the marriage, or they can't resist various temptations from the outside world, and they accidentally get into bed with the wrong person. Whether it is mental or physical infidelity, once a woman crosses the line, it is equivalent to cuckolding her man. And this is what makes men grit their teeth the most.