Male psychology: words for men in their forties

1. If a man in his forties is still unmarried, he must get married at any cost. Legend has it that men and women were originally connected as a whole with their backs to each other, but later when the glue of fate expired, they separated and drifted apart unknowingly. Give it a try, maybe you can really find your other half; if not, what will you lose? At such an old age, are you still afraid of being embarrassed?

2. If a man in his forties has not achieved anything, it just means that he is not a child prodigy or a talented man. However, how did the phrase "great things come late" come about? If someone can start out in his forties and rise from a village head to an emperor, then I might also rise from a pedicurist to a barber in this beautiful middle age!

If men in their thirties or forties have never been to a KTV or sauna, they don't need to go. In the past, there was an old man who wanted to see what a prostitute looked like. When he was dying, his disciples finally hired a relevant expert to do a professional demonstration. Lao Heshang suddenly understood and said, "Oh, so she is the same as a nun!" If you want to listen to singing, you might as well seduce your children; if you want to enjoy a massage, you might as well seduce your wife.

4. A man in his forties can watch whatever he wants. If you have been poisoned and have developed resistance, then looking at others is a sign of respect for them. If you still have no resistance, you might as well watch others. This is a respect for yourself.

If a man in his fifties or forties is still not happy enough, then this is not only an emotion, but a character; it is not only a temporary physical and mental reaction, but an eternal soul pursuit. Let us ask, how many people can carry on being "cynical" to the end? The Golden Crow of the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Grove hung in the sky of the Wei and Jin Dynasties, but their light will always illuminate the entire universe.

6. For a man in his forties, the key is to not believe in himself. If you always say, "I've lived to this age, what else don't I understand?" then it means that you really don't understand. If you always say, "I have walked across more bridges than you have walked on roads, and I have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice," it means you haven't really tried much. Li Ao said that he had not made any progress since he was 18 years old. So what experiences do you and I have that can make you and me confident? Only by not believing in yourself can you truly step out of yourself and truly create a new world.

7. For men in their forties, what should be paid attention to is not their figure but their facial features. If a good or bad figure is a reflection of physical exercise, then a good or bad face is the result of spiritual cultivation. "Appearances are determined by the mind" is not a religious theory, but a true reality. Fortune telling is not actually looking at your future, but at your past. But isn’t there a saying like this? - “Let the past tell the future.”

8. What does a man in his forties have to worry about not making some "mistakes"? There are always some "correct" paths that you don't want to take but you keep taking them; there are always some "wrong" ideas settled in your heart that you want to do but you never do them. If you have not achieved anything yet, why don't you find another way and try to make the so-called "mistakes"? If you have already achieved success and can prove your ability, what can stop you from facing and even correcting the so-called "mistakes" recognized by the world for the sake of your ideals?

9. Men in their forties do not need to have any physical examinations, let alone pay attention to their bodies. Everything that should be checked has been checked before, so why check again? As for the rest, "you reap what you sow", what will happen to you next, don't you know? If your living habits have not changed and your life rhythm has not been disrupted, then what you need to focus on is never yourself, but your family or others; what you need to focus on is never your body, but your mind or soul.

Men in their teens and forties should have a sense of fear in their hearts. The children have not yet fully started their own families and careers, but the parents are already in their twilight years. The wife begins to have doubts about the "waste of money", while you may see yourself as a "flower". Fear can keep you awake, fear can keep you moving forward, fear can make you see further, fear can bring you more peace and greater tranquility. I know of no more important maxim, or one closer to the truth, than this: "Fear alone can save you!"