Why do couples often quarrel? What are the causes of the quarrel?

The relationship between couples who often quarrel will be greatly affected. It is important to find out the reasons for the frequent quarrels in time. Disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most common factor in couple quarrels. If you want to have harmony between husband and wife, you must ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the couple should understand and communicate more.

1. The relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is not harmonious, but the husband always likes to take the side of the mother-in-law

If a woman meets a husband who is "foolishly filial", it is really a great sorrow for her. It was obvious that the mother-in-law was deliberately making things difficult for her daughter-in-law. The woman, who was feeling very aggrieved, wanted her husband to speak up for her or comfort her behind her back, but she didn't expect to be scolded by her husband, who accused her of being undisciplined and not knowing how to be filial. Today's daughters-in-law are no longer as submissive as those in the old society. They certainly cannot tolerate such bullying. When their tolerance reaches a certain limit and they can no longer tolerate their husbands' "foolish filial piety" of favoring their mother-in-law, that is the moment when war breaks out.

2. Children are a topic of conversation between couples and also a source of quarrels

Some couples work hard outside for their careers, but leave their children at their parents' home or their husband's home. What parent doesn’t want their children around? What's more, there is only one child now? Therefore, children became a topic of conversation between couples, but they were also the fuse for quarrels. Women often like to complain. When talking about their children, they always complain that their husbands are useless and cannot buy a house outside earlier to bring the children back to their side, etc. Of course, men cannot tolerate such complaints, so they easily start quarreling.

3. For wealthy couples, women’s suspicion is a common source of quarrels

Nowadays, there are more and more wealthy couples, and a well-off life has gradually penetrated into the lives of ordinary people. However, even though their pockets are fatter, men don't like to go home anymore. The reason men don't go home is always that they are too busy at work, and often not going home will of course arouse women's suspicion and jealousy. As soon as the man got home, he asked a series of questions that no man could answer: Whose is the strange number on the phone? Who sent this disgusting message? Why is there long hair on the suit? Why do you smell like perfume? If a man can't answer, hehe! Women make men look good!

4. The couple quarrels due to personality incompatibility, which makes the marriage constantly unstable.

Many couples quarrel due to incompatibility of personalities, so it is necessary to date before getting married. If you discover that you have incompatible personalities, it is better to break up early while you are in love to avoid the painful divorce after marriage. Marriages between couples with incompatible personalities are more unstable than the first three types of marriages, and the divorce rate is higher than the first three types. Couples should try to avoid quarrels. A harmonious relationship between husband and wife is the prerequisite and key to a happy marriage. I wish all netizens a happy marriage! Till death do us part!