Who cares more about the "first time", men or women?

For many women, not being a virgin before marriage is not uncommon or important. What is important is that the man can accept it. It is not that women have no morals that they lose their virginity to others. Free love forces men and women to have room to express themselves freely, and their mature bodies trigger sexual impulses. So, how do men view the issue of virginity, and how do women view the issue of virginity?

Men like virgins

If you love, you must love a virgin. Women always like to ask men "What do you like about me?" It's very simple, they just like women to be virgins. In fact, virginity is no longer just a virgin, it has become a plot. How many men in this world are virgins who don't care whether their girlfriends or future wives are virgins? It is a fact that men love virgins. What do men love about virgins? Virginity has a very extraordinary meaning to men.

Men looking at virgins

1. Men are in urgent need of virgins. Every man wants his wife to have never had sex. This not only indicates chastity, but also means loyalty in love.

2. Men have no choice but to find a virgin. As long as the woman can still give birth and is not promiscuous, it’s fine. Just imagine, there are so many divorces and so many cohabitations. It is impossible for two people who start dating to be together in the end. So having sex means they are no longer virgins. If you think about it with tolerance and learn from Western countries, you won’t take it so seriously.

3. It doesn’t matter, as long as she is a woman, it’s fine. It is a bit unreasonable to require others to be virgins when you are not a virgin yourself. Most of these people are imaginative humans who believe that love can conquer traditional concepts. Virginity is just a way of saying it and does not represent love.

To sum up, Chinese men have a very serious obsession with virginity. They don't say it out loud, but they care about it in their hearts. But society has become like this, so there is no way to complain. However, there are still some women who encounter tragedies everywhere, and it is often not their virginity that causes the relationship to break down.

Women looking for virginity

1. I care a lot. If you are loyal to love, you should give your first time to the other person. If the other person is not a virgin, it is a betrayal. If you can betray others, you can betray yourself.

2. There is no way to confirm whether he is a virgin or not. Although I care about virginity, I can't tell it apart because it doesn't have obvious characteristics like a virgin. Once they know that the other person is not a virgin, they will become suspicious of many things, even suspecting that he has had sex with prostitutes, and think that such a man is unreliable.

3. It doesn’t matter, as long as you are sincere to yourself. A good man is not necessarily a virgin. It is usually said that second-hand goods are good men. Therefore, many women do not care about the virginity issue and think that as long as they have a safe family and a shoulder to lean on, that is enough. As for what sexual history the man has before, that is not her business.

To sum up, most Chinese women are unable to establish their status. They believe that men have the right to choose, and that it is OK to take off their pants or put on their pants. However, women have too many concerns, and once they have a bad reputation, it will affect their entire life.